psilva00 Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 Hi, I moved to another state with my best female friend. We don't know anyone here. We've been best friends for a long time and I am willing to take to the next level. In many casual conversation, she said she would feel disgusted to sleep with a very close friend, even though she was a crazy party girl. She finds me cute I heard, which is a good thing. So ladies, could this disgusting feelings change with time? I just don't know what to do. It's an awkward situation. Can she ever feel something towards me? She dresses in front of me, doesn't close the bethroom door when she's in. It's driving me crazy. Suck!! Please comment!!
Orianne Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 My husband and I were best friends before we started dating, so it's entirely possible. I know your friend said she was disgusted by the thought of ever sleeping with a friend, but I used to tell my husband stuff like that before we were together. For example, I would tell him that I couldn't stand guys with too much chest hair, knowing full well that he had lots of it. Then one time he flat out asked me if I liked him and I said no, which was a lie. I know that sort of behavior from women can confuse guys, but I said what I said because I was afraid of losing the great friendship we had. What we had was special, and I worried that if I ever let my guard down and got together with him, things would be ruined in the event that we ever broke up. If I were you, I wouldn't pressure her or anything. If she has feelings towards you, she'll gradually let her guard down and the two of you will grow closer. I'd actually disregard her words and look more closely at her actions and how she behaves around you--that will give you a better indication of her feelings.
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