startingoverat30 Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 I have a "friend" who I have been seeing for almost 3 months. Things started off pretty hot and heavy... And tho things were moving fast, we were both ok with it (he asked me a couple of times if I was ok with it moving so fast and said he was glad we were on the same page) He texted me all the time saying how much he missed me and how he was miserable when he wasnt with me. He told me he loved me. He would tell me alot that I meant so much to him and he loved me and that he didnt ever want things to change with us. Now at almost 4 months into the relationship, his texting has almost completely stopped. If I text him somthing-he will text back but only if its a general text. if its something like... i miss you or wish you were laying here with me" he ignores it. He also used to aske me for sexy pics almost every night. now he never does...and if I do send him one, he doesnt acknowledge it. Its so weird---when we are together---he acts the exact same. we are so passionate and things are incredible...but since we dont see each other during the week...I miss the texting... I guess Im worried that he moved too fast and wants to take back the I love you since he hasnt said it for a few weeks. I dont want to bring it up because I think it would prob annoy him and turn him off I did ask him the other night (while we were making out) if we were still on the same page-- and he said "yeah, babe..why wouldnt we be" I told him he had been a little distant lately and he just blew it off like he's been so busy and like its no big deal. He still touches me the same...looks at me the same...still making plans with me for several weeks away. Can someone please help me understand what his thinking might be. I dont know if he is just comfortable with me or if his feelings have changed..or if he feels like maybe he moved too fast and just wanted to slow things down and see how he really feels? IDK!!! It's stressing me out tho. Im recently divorced after 10 years and this is my first relationship since my divorce... Im scared that part of this is me and I dont want to be overbearing...but maybe I dont know how to be anything but married? ugh.....
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