lattp Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 well i started talking to a girl, shes a freshman and im a junior. We would always hang out, i would walk her to class carry her books. she also told me she knew who i was from when she was in 6th grade and i was in 8th. and one of her friends liked her (he was really weird) and he would always follow us. So when we would text, she would say she misses me and wants to see me and also that she really liked me. i really did feel the same way. (I even gave up a chance to go out with a really hot girl to be with this one) So when i finally asked her out she said she wanted to ask her dad so that we could do more stuff and i could give her rides to school. and also she wanted me to do it in front of that guy to so he would chill out. all this happend within about 5 or 6 days. then today, on the 7 day we have known eachother, we had a date to the movies. so i text her to ask her if she will be able to make it. and this was her response. " I dont know how to put this, bt i dont think im read for a boyfriend right now, but we can still be friends. Sorry." So now, im a little sad and a little pissed. idk what to do. i want to text her and ask her if she ment anything she told me, but idk if i should. if i never go out with her, i wouldnt care. so do you guys think i should do it, or should i maybe do something else? can you guys tell me what you think i should do? if youve read this far, then thank you and if you could help me thatd be great!
Easyguy14 Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 well i started talking to a girl, shes a freshman and im a junior. We would always hang out, i would walk her to class carry her books. she also told me she knew who i was from when she was in 6th grade and i was in 8th. and one of her friends liked her (he was really weird) and he would always follow us. So when we would text, she would say she misses me and wants to see me and also that she really liked me. i really did feel the same way. (I even gave up a chance to go out with a really hot girl to be with this one) So when i finally asked her out she said she wanted to ask her dad so that we could do more stuff and i could give her rides to school. and also she wanted me to do it in front of that guy to so he would chill out. all this happend within about 5 or 6 days. then today, on the 7 day we have known eachother, we had a date to the movies. so i text her to ask her if she will be able to make it. and this was her response. " I dont know how to put this, bt i dont think im read for a boyfriend right now, but we can still be friends. Sorry." So now, im a little sad and a little pissed. idk what to do. i want to text her and ask her if she ment anything she told me, but idk if i should. if i never go out with her, i wouldnt care. so do you guys think i should do it, or should i maybe do something else? can you guys tell me what you think i should do? if youve read this far, then thank you and if you could help me thatd be great! cant really offer any advice other than to say that this has become some kind of epidemic now. women show interest in a man off the bat and then turn cold on him for no reason even when the man hasn't done anything wrong to deserve it. maybe my female friend was right about meeting with women that show no interest and even some attitude at first so you can work on them until they warm up to you. at least by then, it turns genuine and it lasts.
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