Utahguy058 Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 So I started talking a boy only 10 days ago. Shortly after we started talking just friendly like my dog passed away. I was very sad and grieving. He was extremely kind and gentle and would listen. I knew that he was in a relationship and looking for only friends. Yet we kept talking and it quickly snowballed into us getting along extremely well. We had so much in common and the chemistry mentally was amazing. It is the first time I have experienced this since I broke up a year ago with my ex. Yet knowing he had a boyfriend I knew that it couldn't be and I couldn't hurt anyone else. So both of us spoke last night and decided it was for the best to not talk at all anymore because the more we talked the deeper we fell. So we cut off all contact. It has only been ten days but it was quite the connection. Now today I am in quite a large amount of pain and really missing talking to him. Did I do the right thing? Has anyone else been in this situation. How did it pan out? What advice does anyone have for me as I know feel that as I lost someone I cared about a lot. We didn't do anything physical because of circumstances. I feel discouraged because I am at a point where settling down for life is what I want. Yet I am 30 and starting to feel that I am getting to an age where it is hard to find people. Any advice would be so so appreciated, or similar stories. Thanks so much.m
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