Manza25 Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 Hi guys, i'm 25 and I recently (4 months ago) broke up with my ex, LTR of 7 years. So yeah I kinda grew up with him. Going to college, moving in a new city, got a job in my field. He decided to go to University. 4 Months ago, I made some decisions to do some cleaning in my life. I left my job I didn't like and meanwhile I decided to end this relationship I was so sad and unhappy with. His response was he didn't love me anymore either and that I deserved someone's better in my life who could actually make me happy. So now, i've been living alone and working in a wonderful job environment with co-workers that I like to work with etc. I do my own things, you know hobbies, hanging out with friends, gym, working out. Everything's fine EXCEPT one thing. I already started to date again, and OH GOD, it's frustrating. It never clicks, my dates are always depressing and disappointing. I don't know what's wrong with me, am I trying to get a quick fix for my loss? Am I comparing all my new dates to my ex ? It looks like i'm not rdy at all to date or actually THINK of being with someone. I just feel so alone sometimes it's annoying. I have very supportive parents and my father always tells me to get my priorities in order when some guy ends up messing around my expectations (knowing if I want to be with someone) Recently, I met this guy who was actually a clone of my ex, interests, hobby wise. He ended up messing around with my feelings with his arrogance of being so much INDEPENDENT. Whatever, back to the point. I really want to get new goals, my new priorities and I cannot do it because I always have this urge to meet new guys just to see if I could fix or heal faster my loss or whatever but it just doesnt work. In that phase, that I always get frustrated about meeting non-clicking guys, I keep dreaming about my ex who plays with my sadness (in my dreams) He was a manipulative personn all the time. Anyone knows if yourself get together in one piece after a while? cause right now, it's taking forever to heal. Sorry for the wall of text. I just had to vent a bit. Suggestions appreciated. Thanks everyone Have a nice weekend!
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