lattp Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 well i started talking to a girl, shes a freshman and im a junior. We would always hang out, i would walk her to class carry her books. she also told me she knew who i was from when she was in 6th grade and i was in 8th. and one of her friends liked her (he was really weird) and he would always follow us. So when we would text, she would say she misses me and wants to see me and also that she really liked me. i really did feel the same way. (I even gave up a chance to go out with a really hot girl to be with this one) So when i finally asked her out she said she wanted to ask her dad so that we could do more stuff and i could give her rides to school. and also she wanted me to do it in front of that guy to so he would chill out. all this happend within about 5 or 6 days. then today, on the 7 day we have known eachother, we had a date to the movies. so i text her to ask her if she will be able to make it. and this was her response. " I dont know how to put this, bt i dont think im read for a boyfriend right now, but we can still be friends. Sorry." So now, im a little sad and a little pissed. idk what to do. i want to text her and ask her if she ment anything she told me, but idk if i should. if i never go out with her, i wouldnt care. so do you guys think i should do it, or should i maybe do something else? can you guys tell me what you think i should do? if youve read this far, then thank you and if you could help me thatd be great!
amazingmandy Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 Well first of all I think she truly is not ready for a relationship and she may be intimidated of the age difference... After all. You said she was a freshmen and you are a junior? Also, it may just be the way you worded it, but it sounds like things went by and happened really fast. Things always work out the best when they are slowed down. I'm all for fighting for love, so I say just give her a smallish break, ya know? Give her some time to think. When you do decide to talk to her though just tell her what you truly feel. Hope this helped! Good luck! -Mandy
Ross MwcFan Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 Just move on. Not sure why she acted all interested in you in the first place though.
Author lattp Posted August 21, 2011 Author Posted August 21, 2011 Well first of all I think she truly is not ready for a relationship and she may be intimidated of the age difference... After all. You said she was a freshmen and you are a junior? Also, it may just be the way you worded it, but it sounds like things went by and happened really fast. Things always work out the best when they are slowed down. I'm all for fighting for love, so I say just give her a smallish break, ya know? Give her some time to think. When you do decide to talk to her though just tell her what you truly feel. Hope this helped! Good luck! -Mandy so how long do you think i should give her? also do you think i should text her?
Author lattp Posted August 21, 2011 Author Posted August 21, 2011 Just move on. Not sure why she acted all interested in you in the first place though. So you think i should just give up? and why wouldnt you agree with Mandy?
dispatch3d Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 Just move on. Girl used you to get your creepy friend off her back. I would have refused to do that **** too.
Author lattp Posted August 21, 2011 Author Posted August 21, 2011 Just move on. Girl used you to get your creepy friend off her back. I would have refused to do that **** too. i dont think she did that beacuse she said that their families are really good friends and that she still would want to be friends with him
Cracker Jack Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 Don't text her. Just leave it alone. Maybe she'll text you back on her own accord? If not, it's nothing to sweat. You likely wouldn't get a good answer from her, anyway. I just think you're better off forgetting about her (but I'm sure you'll still text her) and focusing on other girls.
Ross MwcFan Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 (edited) So you think i should just give up? and why wouldnt you agree with Mandy? Yeah. She's not interested. No point in carrying on pestering a girl. All it will do is annoy her, and it may make you come across as a bit creepy. If she really is interested in you but is not ready for a boyfriend yet, then when she is ready she'll probably let you know. But don't hold out for it or hope for it. Just try and hook up with another girl. Edited August 22, 2011 by Ross MwcFan
Author lattp Posted August 22, 2011 Author Posted August 22, 2011 Yeah. She's not interested. No point in carrying on pestering a girl. All it will do is annoy her, and it may make you come across as a bit creepy. If she really is interested in you but is not ready for a boyfriend yet, then when she is ready she'll probably let you know. But don't hold out for it or hope for it. Just try and hook up with another girl. i think your right. i said **** it. im already going out with another firl and her friend told me shes jealous. but whatever. she missed out
Eddie Edirol Posted August 22, 2011 Posted August 22, 2011 Forget about this one. Dont be surprised if yo usee her dating the guy she was trying to avoid, and she used you to make him jealous. Dont worry about it, leave her alone, dont talk to her again, and go ask out the hot girl that you really wanted.
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