Married ladies, what would you do if you got pregnant by another married guy?

[BLUIEGURL33]

Reason I asked this was because my mother heard rumors that my father was married at the time she was pregnant with me

She doesn't know that for sure

I never saw my father since birth...

 

Don't reply that you won't get pregnant like that

I just wonder what would you do if this happens?

And how would you explain this to your husband?

[sadintexas]

These things happen. People get lied to all the time. It's really no reflection on your mom whether this guy was married or not. If he was, she certainly didn't know about it. And he took off when she was pregnant so (sorry to say) obviously not a stand up guy. To me, that wouldn't require a whole lot of explaining to anyone, especially since she doesn't know.

[BLUIEGURL33]

These things happen. People get lied to all the time. It's really no reflection on your mom whether this guy was married or not. If he was, she certainly didn't know about it. And he took off when she was pregnant so (sorry to say) obviously not a stand up guy. To me, that wouldn't require a whole lot of explaining to anyone, especially since she doesn't know.

 

My question wasn't asking about my situation

My question was for married women if they find themselves in similar situation with another married men, what would they do about it?

How would they explain this to their own husband?

[sadintexas]

Sorry, can't answer your question then because frankly, wouldn't do that. I know that's not what you want to hear, but you aren't going to get what you're looking for here.

 

I was under the impression by your post that your mom wasn't married when this happened. If that's incorrect, then what's the relevance?

[Woman In Blue]

Bluie, you can't tell people how to answer your question or demand that they answer it in a certain way.

 

I'll bite. If I were married and got pregnant by a married man, I absolutely would NOT have the baby. And I'd probably do everything in my power for my husband not to know a thing about it before, during, and after. Not nice, but I'm being honest.

[BLUIEGURL33]

Bluie, you can't tell people how to answer your question or demand that they answer it in a certain way.

 

I'll bite. If I were married and got pregnant by a married man, I absolutely would NOT have the baby. And I'd probably do everything in my power for my husband not to know a thing about it before, during, and after. Not nice, but I'm being honest.

 

Sorry about my reply

What else am I to say if your or someone else doesn't directly answer my question?

[Untouchable_Fire]

Bluie, you can't tell people how to answer your question or demand that they answer it in a certain way.

I'll bite. If I were married and got pregnant by a married man, I absolutely would NOT have the baby. And I'd probably do everything in my power for my husband not to know a thing about it before, during, and after. Not nice, but I'm being honest.

 

... and what if you were unsure who the father was?

 

Once you make a choice like that you can't take it back... and the potential damage is enormous. At least if you approached the situation with honesty you have a shot at a happy ending.

 

The cowards choice is rarely the best option.

[fltc]

And how would you explain this to your husband?

 

Sounds like a situation tailor made for Jerry Springer, go on the show, tell your husband on the show, at least you'll get paid for it and the security people will keep your husband from strangling you!

[road]

Not a girl.

 

The BH deserves the truth.

[PatFinkle]

This is why it is recommended for cheating women to either use effective birth control or take the man's load in the mouth or the butt rather than the vj.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Married ladies, what would you do if you got pregnant by another married guy?

 

 

 

The proper reaction would be to go out and buy a CD by Heart and listen to

 

"All I Want to do is Make Love to You" over and over again.

[imagine]

Actually, I think this thread is better answered by the husband.

 

I suspect that hubby would have a better perspective on the situation while the wife carries only guilt.

 

I personally would want my wife to feel the pangs of her action. I'm referring to her exposure of the deed and the implimentation of EP's (extraordinary precautions)