iheartsuki Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 i just posted another thread relating to this, but i actually have another problem going on w/ my bf. so...i work....sometimes late at night. i don't have a car right now and depend on my bf to take me places and pick me up. sometimes, when i get out at the store where i work, it's dark outside (and the store is closed). since other girls that i work with have been stalked there, no one leaves anyone else there alone -- everyone leaves the store together, and all at the same time. since there is no exact time that we finish at night (it just takes as long as it takes) the time that i get out of work varies slightly by about 15 minutes, maybe 30 MAX. i have asked my boyfriend to get there at the earliest time i could get out (the MOST he would have to wait, realisitically, is about 15 mins....maybe 30 max, but that's rare). but he doesn't want to wait. he gets there when HE feels like i'm most likely to get out, and if i have to wait in the dark. he says he doesn't want to have to wait 5 - 15 minutes he would realistically be waiting, and that he doesn't feel like that's wrong because there's someone else there waiting with me. i don't feel like it's right to make someone who isn't even supposed to care about me, and who has been on their feet all day and is probably hungry and ready to go home or go out and unwind, wait with me because my boyfriend is unwilling to make SURE i don't come out in the dark, without a ride waiting. he always preaches about not affecting other people, but in this case he is impacting someone else he doesn't even know. i feel like this is a huge indicator that he just doesn't really care about me. it's also really embarrassing when other girls that i don't even really know (i haven't been working there long) are basically FORCED to wait with me b/c my boyfriend (someone who is supposed to care about me) doesn't FEEL like waiting. something just seems really wrong with this. am i crazy? am i overreacting?
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