neomye Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 After a 18 year marriage and divorced for 2 i found my first bf online and we started seeing each other .. its been a year and few months he lives out of state so that makes it so much harder. I broke up with him 2 months ago he tried contacting me through text and after a while i responded, we decided to give it another try, its been two weeks now and i feel he's being so cold and distant with me. so i confronted him( well through text) and he just dissapeared. i don't know what to think of this.. why did he bother saying we should try if he was going to do this to me..
smudge21 Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 Sorry but I don't think anyone other than him will have the answer to that question. What you've got to do is avoid thinking about all the possibly reasons for his actions. Until you know for sure, you'll only be guessing. Might I suggest you draft up an email, asking him what happened. Write it, sleep on it, re-read it and make any changes, then sleep on it again. Don't send it until you're sure - you don't want to regret anything you say. Hope you feel better soon.
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