moving on from ex gf, delete her fb and that then i get a text! next day i get a text

[mindgame13]

I had been struggling with my break up with my ex, like i was always checking on her facebook, you know the whole stupid checking up on her stuff. My parents were going away to australia, in 4 weeks for 3 and half weeks, she was ment to be staying at mine during this time. but she broke up with me before then and said she didnt want anything to do with me and would never give me another chance? Anyway when she was going to be staying she was gonna be helping out with the house and sister while i worked, after i broke up i asked her if she would still help me, she said she would help me with things, but i think i was only saying that for an excuse to see her, anyway last night i deleted her blackberry messenger contact and facebook contact i deleted this at 1pm last night and i woke up at 7am this morning. I have a text from her saying " Hey, im gonna take it you wont want help looking after amy when your mum goes away then?" the last time i had spoke to her was 3 days ago, how should i take this and what should my actions be?

[betterdeal]

Reply, "You're right. I won't. Please leave me alone. I have nothing more to say to you" then call your phone company and change your phone number.

[mindgame13]

right ok and why would i do that, she was the one that broke it off with me not the other way around, i never wanted to break up with her. Il post my other two previous thread links on here see if you think they make a difference, http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t293049/

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t292183/

[betterdeal]

You would do that because it is over. Life is not fair. Who initiated the split does not matter. She dumped you. Why would you not do it? If I came along as spat in your face, would you hang around for more of the same? No. Change your number. It's free, and a good time to clear out contacts you don't need any more from your life.

 

But by all means, make excuses to let her take the piss a bit more and keep that door open for her. It's your life.