Dust Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 Yes their effort is minimal....the force is strong with them... What are you talking abut. You can’t even be bothered to have a good attitude about this. You feel yourself and it’s very obvious. That in itself is a turn off to people. (not just women) Heck animals react to that.
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 What are you talking abut. You can’t even be bothered to have a good attitude about this. You feel yourself and it’s very obvious. That in itself is a turn off to people. (not just women) Heck animals react to that. You just made me . Attitude is key I don't want to date a debby downer, and I bet a lot of people don't I'm not saying turn into the happiest person ever and let nothing bug you, because that would be bad, but find a happy medium. If you are happy with yourself and love yourself(corny I know) then other people will notice.
Author Hyperion Posted August 20, 2011 Author Posted August 20, 2011 What do you mean by good attitude...I am not sad....I just said that my buddies barely have to move to get the ladies....just pointing it out.....
Eddie Edirol Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 What do you mean by good attitude...I am not sad....I just said that my buddies barely have to move to get the ladies....just pointing it out..... Ask your buddies how they do it. IF they dont want to teach you, you have to do some research on how to approach women in clubs. You have to have confidence on hand ready to display.
Author Hyperion Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Well...they are a bit older than I am...like 5 years or so...and they got $$$$$$$....one drives a BMW and the other one has a Porsche....Benjamin is indeed the only man women are loyal to...hahaha
ChessPieceFace Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 LOL, he got to be a 23 year old virgin who never kissed a girl because he was being himself. I'm a 35 yo virgin who has never kissed anyone, and I'd still rather be myself than be someone like you.
robertdawson Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 Almost the same problem as you. I get the feeling I approach and talk to more women than you do but it never goes past them being friends/acquaintances, even with ones I thought I had a shot with. It really does get frustrating, but all I know to say is to keep trying. If I knew anything different I'd apply it myself.
robertdawson Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I assume a lot of women are against guys who haven't had relationships before. If they are against these guys then how will they ever break the cycle? Let us ponder this.
counterman Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 You are not alone in this. I have friends how haven't dated or kissed before, but at least you're making an effort and putting yourself out there. I understand that you're jaded and a bit bitter due to your experiences, and maybe you should stop approaching girls for a while and just enjoy life: have fun with your mates, do things YOU want to do. One of the key things I have learnt is not to take things too seriously. I have been rejected before and have been flaked on and there hasn't been a built of bitterness or disappointment within me. Sure its frustrating at times, but dating is only one component of life and when other things in my life are going well, I find that my dating life is much better.
ChessPieceFace Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I assume a lot of women are against guys who haven't had relationships before. If they are against these guys then how will they ever break the cycle? Lie? Lie lie lie, seems like the best way to get women unfortunately. Oh, and lie with confidence. Be a jerk and treat them like crap, believe you're better than everyone else and act like it. Etc etc.
jonsmith1 Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I don't approach a lot of women now days, but its because every time I tried in the last 10 years of my life I just got rejections. I approached girls at school parties, college parties,clubs, bars, the mall, local stores, the street...and it always backfired..I really don't know what it is...I am mature, responsible, never got drunk, never did drugs, respect everybody as long I am respected, I wouldn't say I am a nice guy but definitely not a bad boy type...all my friends already had sex, have girlfriends, and I hear everybody saying that is so easy to get women today, that all you have to do is stand by and wait that they will come running...but not with me...I am not rich( I know that would solve everything but...) I ran out of ideas...right now I don't even bother approaching anymore....but its very frustrating and depressing...what should I do? I'll be 23 in less than a month and never even dated or kissed a woman. Is this true? I dont believe it. but i am not getting that why you are going to be very frustrating and depressing. its happens some time.
Feelsgoodman Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I am mature, responsible, never got drunk, never did drugs, respect everybody as long I am respected, I wouldn't say I am a nice guy but definitely not a bad boy type... That's your problem right there.
Feelsgoodman Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 LOL, he got to be a 23 year old virgin who never kissed a girl because he was being himself. Agreed. Be yourself = worst advice ever.
Author Hyperion Posted August 23, 2011 Author Posted August 23, 2011 Hahah...I think you are right Feelsgoodman...people will most likely accept who you are..once they are blinded by the person they thought you were...and relationships are no different...its a matter of manipulation and power....I'm gonna start doing some serious changes regarding my approaches....I like the person I am....but it doesn't mean that I can't hide it and adapt it for better prospects...
Feelsgoodman Posted August 23, 2011 Posted August 23, 2011 I'm a 35 yo virgin who has never kissed anyone, and I'd still rather be myself than be someone like you. And that's why you will die an 85 yo virgin. If being yourself has gotten you nowhere, it can only mean one thing: you suck (at least in the eyes of women). It's sort of like the theory of evolution...on a personal scale. Those who are not flexible enough to adapt to their environment fail to pass their genes along.
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