This Asian dude Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 I'll try to sum up my situation in without leaving out key details: So I started talking to my ex girlfriend in March we went on one date and we texted each other for 3 weeks, before she completely stopped communicating with me. ( I figured out what it was, she had just gotten out of a 2 year relashionship with another dude a month before I started talking to her) Once I figured this out I backed off hoping she would come to me. I don't hear from her again til June when she shows up to my graduation and hugs me and is all happy to see me. I text her the day after but she ended the conversation early. Last month she came back, she started to text me and we've been texting eachother since then. I texted her 2 weeks ago to kick it sometime and she said most definitely. I've been really busy lately and havent really had time to get around to calling her to ask her to kick it. I've been texting her every 2 or 3 days since I asked her to kick it 2 weeks ago, but the text conversations haven't been very long. The last time I text her was sunday and I asked her was she was doing, she was at the beach and I asked her if it was nice there and she answered and that was it. So on tuesday I go on facebook and it says on her status that shes in an relashionship with another dude. As I scolled down the page she also made a post the day saying "I dont usually go for asian dudes but there's something special about this one :)" I'm her only asian ex-boyfriend, all her other boyfriends have been asian I know this for a fact because she told me herself. I don't understand. she was just texting me last week, how does she fall for another dude and get in a relationship so quickly? it seems weird to me. Help ( I understand the majority of this relationship is probably built off text messages and not actual communication)
Nsweet Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 Dude, calm down. She still loves you but you're moving way to fast to win her back! Cut back on your texts to you testing her after she sends 2 or 3, and miss a phone call once in a while. Do not under any circumstance ask her if she is single unless she asks you. Bottom line has been missing you. You're probably freaking her out though with being too available all the time. Get a hobbie and work on yourself.
Frank13 Posted August 20, 2011 Posted August 20, 2011 She doesn't love him. She just contacted him after the break up of her 2 year relationshio because she was lonely. Now that she has found a new guy, she no longer needs him.
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