kushala1 Posted May 3, 2004 Share Posted May 3, 2004 My xbf broke up with me two weeks after our 1st yr anniversary. The night of our anniversary he even said I was his "perfect complement" and "complete" him. Since he wasn't usually vocal about his feelings, I actually believed him. Anyway, his excuse was that since I'm a few years older (early 30's) than he (late 20's), I'll be ready for marriage long before he will. He didn't want me to waste my time while I'm still "marketable". Marriage was never even mentioned, but whatever. Now 5 months later and after finally starting to accept the fact that it really is over; I find myself feeling almost as hurt and angry as the day of the break up. Although, it's not nearly as painful now, I feel like I should've been done with all this by now. I've only seen him twice, never call and rarely return or p/up his calls. I'm busy with school (getting my BA) and hanging out with friends, so what else can I do?? Right now, I'm not interested in being involved in a serious relationship, but I'm really starting to wonder if maybe a rebound relationship is the answer. If so, should I tell "my victim" the truth? After all, what guy would mind being "used"? If I do decide to do it, how should I approach it? Link to post Share on other sites
hurtingandconfused Posted May 3, 2004 Share Posted May 3, 2004 You answered your own question I'm busy with school (getting my BA) and hanging out with friends I'm not interested in being involved in a serious relationship No a rebound is not the solution. Maybe you should finish school, choose a career, and then maybe you'll meet someone. After all, what guy would mind being "used"? Ummmmmm mE!! Link to post Share on other sites
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