nevergiveuphope Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 I have this female friend who I kind of fell out with about a year ago she broke up with her boyfriend at the time and I told her I liked her but she ended up getting back with him a few months later and things got akward between us. Her rejection kinda triggered a bout of me becoming depressed something that was coming for more reasons than just that. I sorted myself out pretty quickly and am in the most positive place I have been in for years. About 3/4 months back I made up with this friend and we put our differences aside and while we were not as close as once used to be I was just happy that there was no bad blood between us and we gradually improved our friendship. Cue now and she has broken up with her ex again but she is heartbroken and I have been trying to keep my distance from this situation mindful of what happened before. But I have noticed that she is drinking a lot, getting with different lads all the time and never really looking happy. I have been in this situation and I am pretty sure she is suffering from a mini bout of depression but what do I do I am the only one of her friends that is seeing this. Should I ask her to meet up for a coffee and tell her I am worried about her and ask her to talk to someone? I cant just do nothing because some day/night she is just going to breakdown if someone doesn't do something. I really don't want to get too involved because of what happened before but at the same time I am worried about this girl and would hate to see something bad happen her.
MySoulRunsFree Posted August 27, 2011 Posted August 27, 2011 This situation is crazy, but you can't avoid talking to her if you guys are truly friends. You don't want to feel guilty later if something goes wrong or if you find yourself distant again and possibly for a longer period of time. Any who, maybe you just had bad timing when you told her how you felt the first time, things could be different now. Or maybe she only still likes you as a friend or maybe you only like her as a friend now. You'll never know until you talk to her. I think you should have a friendly conversation over coffee or what ever it is thats neutral and casual for you both to address all of the issues at hand, past and present. Good luck! Male-Female friendships arent my fav. lol they always have underlying tension of some sort from one or both parties.
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