Paige1377 Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 Ok, ex and I broke up two months ago and we share a one year old daughter. We had been fighting alot over jealously issues, and the fact I think he cheated. My daughter and I moved and we are now in the present. He's moved on, he broke up with me, but at the beginning of the break up he said he saw us possibly working out and now he talks about how it will be okay if we don't end up together and if we see other people that it will be okay and not affect our daughter. That last sentenced kills me, bc I still love him, yet he said he doesn't have the same feelings. He knew that I wanted to make it work but he didn't, saying I made him miserable and how he is so happy now. Also I have a feeling he is dating someone, I don't know for sure bc I won't ask, we aren't together so it's not my place and honestly it hurts too much to know after six years, a planned wedding and a child together he could just move on that fast. I am working to move on, currently living with my parents but am moving with my child for a job and getting my own place bc I definitely need some space. The moving on is hard bc we have our daughter, so we are in contact bc of that. Our conversations are around our daughter but sometimes like last Friday he calls me out of the blue real late wanting to chit chat over work and me moving and just having a good conversation. I cry less now...however I am still hurt and still want him back. I want my family, want us to work things out so we can get married and watch our child grow. But I also know he hasn't tried to get me back in two months, that he said he still doesn't feel for me so that's why I am trying to move on. Every time he calls my heart flutters....and he is weird...some days nice, others he is a dick. I never know what to expect with him just know he wants his daughter which is awesome, but not me. So please some tips...I don't want to be one of those women still waiting a year down the road...and then take him back and turn a blind eye to everything just bc he has my heart. Give me some feedback!
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