True2form Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 Been dating a guy for 2 months, everything was going fine till this last weekend. He was working both fri and sat. Meant to be coming out Fri for my housemate and best friend's birthday. Text me last minute saying "Exhausted after work, might grab a bath and head into town for an early one, what are your plans." I was a little surprised because he knew the plans, he was invited, but I replied saying that if he was tired he shouldn't worry about coming out and I'd catch him on Sat or Sun instead. Sat comes around and I decided to just let him be. Nothing all day and all evening. Wake up sunday morning and I had a missed call at 3.30 am. Sooooo he had been out and about....thanks for the (what I can only assume to be a) booty call! Never mind, says I bravely, i will laugh this off. I tried to call Sunday afternoon, phone rings and rings. So I texted, feeling a little put off at this point, but remaining casual, laughing off the mid night call and asking where he ended up. NOTHING. Nothing nothing nothing. The only thing I've heard was I mentioned to a friend on facebook that I had a new bra.... and he "liked" the comment. Big red flag went up. I'm pretty disappointed that this guy has suddenly done a 180 and gone from charming and fun to sleaze-bag. Do I remain silent or should I make my disapproval clear? Either way, pretty sure I'm done.
TuffCookieX Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 Sounds like the douchbag that I'm "talking" to. The best answer is to run for the hills... I can give advice but I can't take it. I'm sticking around for my piece of sh*t and I honestly don't know why. Yeah, flaking on plans is almost as bad as lying, but the two usually go hand in hand.
D-Lish Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 Doesn't sound like a "relationship", it sounds more like a casual dating scenario.
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