Tom81 Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 So I run about 3-5 miles at the park every other day after work...and I had a question for the women here: How would you feel about a guy approaching you at the park? I usually see a few attractive women there every time...usually finishing a run, walking their dog, or simply going for a walk. I'm not the kind of guy with that much confidence to approach someone out of the blue like that...but I've been thinking about it lately. Just wanted to hear some opinions or stories if this has ever happened to you. If so how did it go or what did you think of that approach. Thanks!
Casablanca Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Find something to start a conversation about, not just a hey, I'm so and so, you're pretty...blah blah blah or how about that weather....Im sure some guys can pull that off fine with just a cold approach, but I need at least something in the environment I can use to make a "connection" The dog is a great conversation starter...I use to use my parent's dogs as a chick magnet...got a few dates out of that, ...maybe I should offer to take them to the park even though I don't live there anymore I've also used the water fountain...a park I run at has a crappy water fountain that you have to hold in 3/4ths of the way...a girl came up after me and wasnt having any luck, so I told her the little trick...and we talked for a couple of minutes.
Easyguy14 Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 So I run about 3-5 miles at the park every other day after work...and I had a question for the women here: How would you feel about a guy approaching you at the park? I usually see a few attractive women there every time...usually finishing a run, walking their dog, or simply going for a walk. I'm not the kind of guy with that much confidence to approach someone out of the blue like that...but I've been thinking about it lately. Just wanted to hear some opinions or stories if this has ever happened to you. If so how did it go or what did you think of that approach. Thanks! you've to use the environment as a starter like the other poster said and it has to come across with ease, not with obvious intentions of wanting a date. Confidence is a must with a small dose of humor. just a little bit as to not appear to be trying too hard. I learned these skills over the years. sometimes you'll get the green light to approach a woman when she gives you good eye contact, but with the finer babes they'll avoid eye contact because they expect to get hit on. if you want the hotter ones, you got to bring the same approach and not let their initial non-chalant responses deter you. the beautiful women usuaully seem stand-offish at first since they always get hit on. rise above it and at least feign genuine interest in wanting to know who they are as a person. I usually prefer the average-looking women with pretty potential over the obvious eye-candy, but to each their own. take the advise I gave you. it should work out. all the best and keep us informed.
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