njruns75 Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Ok so I met a guy and he gave me his number etc. He was trying to make plans with me but 1, I wasn't sure if I was attracted to him 2, I was more interested in another guy and 3, his plan always seemed to be late night or have a hook up innuendo. I said no to his request to hang out after midnight etc. For a few days, he tried to make plans with me but I was kinda blowing him off. I could tell he was getting annoyed. I told him I could hang out either fri or sat last week but I was hoping to see someone else so I didn't commit. Last min that someone else blew me off so I called up this guy and he said he had plans w guys already but would meet me for a drink. Met for drink an he had to leave to go meet his buddies -after an hour, as he told me. Thought it was weird he didn't invite me along but then again he was my backup guy so I can see that...I do like him. He's a very nice fun guy. After he hung w friends he. Trxted at 2am wanting to hang out! I said it was too late. So then he said we should hang out Sunday and watch movies. Sunday came around and I made plans w someone else since I was mad he tied to booty call at 2am. Told him maybe I'd hang out and that I'd take a shower and get back to him. Then he got frustrated bc 2 hr went by before I told him I couldn't hang out! Then Monday I felt bad and invited him over. We had a great time (no sex or anything bad) and he said we should hang out Thursday (tonight) since monday he has texted every day but then last night I ask if we are still on for thur and his reply was " I'll get back to you shortly. I may have to do something w my dad.@". He texted hi today but still no wot about later. I know this sounds ridiculous but are we both playing games w each other? He seemed all interested is it possible he is playing hard to get now?
Conscience Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Yah! Well it seems that budy figured out that you might that be all worth it afterall.... Think of it if he called at 2am and he didn't get the chance to hit it, then you invite him over and again he didn't get to hit it then he;s gone ! obviously seems like a guy that is in for only one thing....
youngskywalker Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Playing hard to get on your end doesn't include canceling plans and being indecisive about going out. Girls like you get dumped immediately. You need to solidify some plans and go through with it. Make him #1 or move on. If you don't he's just going to move on- if he hasn't already. For me, there is no bigger turnoff then when a girl makes a date and doesn't follow through. It shows that you're unorganized, indecisive or just disrespectful and screams RUN. Plan a date with a few days in advance. Go through with it. If he cancels on you then cross him off your list.
FitChick Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 It sounds like he has other women he's interested in and when they are not available or he strikes out, he calls you. You do the same to him. Stop wasting each others time. On second thought, perhaps you two deserve each other.
phineas Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 You flake on me and you are going to have to do some work to show me with actions that you truely are interested. I know the difference between interested & nothing better to do & don't waste my time with women who don't show genuine interest.
Yookie Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 You're both playing games with each other. Neither of you are truly interested in estabishing a relationship. You're manuvering to use him as a back-up plan when you have nothing better to do while he is manuvering to for an opportunity to pump n dump. How old are you two?
Disillusioned Posted August 19, 2011 Posted August 19, 2011 Yes, men with money play HTG because they can. They know how badly some women want a guy who'll buy them stuff.
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