imperfectsituation Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Do affairs always involve feelings of extreme neediness and moments when you've discovered that the constant low-level emotional pain has gradually aggregated into a huge bundle of agony because the only person you can turn to is your affair partner, especially when something happens to disturb the transient peace you've established, but maybe she needs space to feel healthier, so then you feel even guiltier for demanding so much of her when really you both just want to be positive factors in each others' lives? And is this partly because the kinds of people who maintain an affair that's not about meeting for sex but is about being in love and not knowing what to do with it tend to be clingy and needy and easily confused to begin with, or they'd actually take time to figure out their lives in the right ways?
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