blinded_by_s0rr0w Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 Survey: How many of you here watch porn when you are in a relationshp? I dont and my partner has stopped(Im sure...)because he respects and loves me.
krbshappy71 Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 I don't right now but have in the past if the partner brings it up to see if I am open to it. If its not brought up, I don't suggest it because I don't really need it. Its entertaining and all, can spice things up if both people want to, why not. I'm not sure what type of porn you are referring to, I'm assuming "soft porn" without the hard core or demeaning stuff? The only time I've had a problem with a partner watching porn was when the person completely turned off all other activities, started staying up all night to do so, lost interest in reality completely, couldn't go to work because he was too tired from watching porn all night, etc. and lost interest in the bedroom too. It sucked, but I still don't blame the porn, he just got out of hand with it. He also had a gambling problem, maybe just an addictive personality in general, I don't know.
Thinkalot Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 We sometimes watch it together if we are in the mood.
Kat Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 We giggle over the odd email my partner gets which is 'porn orientated' as well as if we stumble across a website, or tv show. Nothing more. We don't use porn in our relationship, in any way shape or form......well accept for our's
bluechocolate Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 Originally posted by Thinkalot We sometimes watch it together if we are in the mood. same here it's been quite a while now ( the porn I mean ) - wondering now if I should dust off those tapes !! tapes !! maybe we should upgrade to DVD's !
Thinkalot Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 Originally posted by bluechocolate it's been quite a while now ( the porn I mean ) - wondering now if I should dust off those tapes !! tapes !! maybe we should upgrade to DVD's ! lol! Same here actually.
abbyroadme Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 I am in a relationship, but we do not watch porn together. He is into it and all. Though I am not into it at all. I guess it depends on the relationship.
jmargel Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 We watch it all the time. Gives us good ideas, and we aren't so insecure that a video of that would make us jealous. You can't control your partner's thoughts or desires. You need to be able to compromise and adapt in some ways. Otherwise they'll just satisfy their curiousities somewhere else.
zarathustra Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 We occasionally watch it together as a mood booster. To me, the most interesting porn question is whether OSHA will mandate only condom sets in San Fernando Valley as a result of the latest HIV outbreak. I see it coming, so to speak.
luciana Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 My man and I really enjoy watching porn together. I always tell him that we can only ever watch it together as opposed to on our own. we usually watch it to get us in the mood and I'll always know what he's after without him saying a word when he puts it on. we only mainly have women/lesbian in our collection as i am also into women. we would like to try a three-some. with an extra woman. We'll keep hopingXXXXX Luciana
GOLDIE_LOCKS Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 We watched it Saturday night actually - at my suggestion. I do not like it if he's doing it by himself, but it put us both in a very *nice* mood and neither of us were insecure. It was wonderful. Saturday was a good day for us. HEHE
sprightlee Posted May 3, 2004 Posted May 3, 2004 I think that it's okay if either partner watches porn, together or separately...Who is so insecure that they think Jenna Jamison is going steal their boyfriend or husband?
blinded_by_s0rr0w Posted May 4, 2004 Posted May 4, 2004 Originally posted by sprightlee I think that it's okay if either partner watches porn, together or separately...Who is so insecure that they think Jenna Jamison is going steal their boyfriend or husband? I dont think Jenna Jamison would steal my bf or husband I just dont feel respected if he watches porn...Im not anti-porn but I dont like it in a relationship.Thats just me.
Kat Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 Originally posted by sprightlee I think that it's okay if either partner watches porn, together or separately...Who is so insecure that they think Jenna Jamison is going steal their boyfriend or husband? I am more worried about the 'unhealthy' thoughts regarding another women, rather than the fear of losing him to porn
sprightlee Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 I apologize for the harshness of my comment. It came out the wrong way. What I should have said is: We as women need to feel secure in the fact that our lovers desire us, or the passion gets lost somewhere. If you don't want your man to watch porn because you are bothered by it, than he should stop. Men are visual creatures, and many of them fantasize on their own, even without porn, but I don't think that means that they love us any less.
Believer69 Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 I love porn...by myself, with my partner, I enjoy it! But I do understand the insecurity that can occur when your partner watches ALL the time without you. Its like, hey I'm here? Did you forget? Moderation I suppose.
wiseOLDman Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 My wife and I will occassionally put in a DVD. She seems good with it, but it may be because I begin the session with a sensual oil massage while we watch it.
zarathustra Posted May 5, 2004 Posted May 5, 2004 Heck, who needs to watch porn. Some of these hot LoveShack avatars are quite explicit in their own right. Ain't it so, Hokey and Wise?
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