spoiled14313 Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 This is my first time on here and dont know where to start..well ive met this guy at my work about a year ago and we connected instantly.i thought he was the one..well I found out he worked there too. We started dating and about 2 months in,ppl at work were butting in and causing problems. My bf started listening to the rumors and questioning me and about my past. My mistake, I thought it would clear things up so I told him all about my past..well it made things worse cuz it brought him to have trust issues and insecurties. Ive never cheated on anyone I was with but I did jump into realionships too fast n jumped right bak out cuz they were not the one...so as timed passed my bf constantly questioned me n told me he couldnt trust me..ive never gave him a reason to believe I was dishonest with him. I did everything for him..took care of his two kids which live in two different cities..took care of him n his kids for 5 months while he didnt have a job..well like I said I jump into realuonships too fast ..about 4 months in we moved in together..there were good times n bad but what hurts was we constantly argured about my past were it got to a point of him pushing my face and kicking me out of our house 3 times. Aroumd 11 months nothing hasnt really changed we always try to say we wil trust one another but we both know we dont..so I moved out n when I told him I want to break u..till this day he wont give up n I keep giving in trying to make it work but the arguing ,insecurties,and trust issues will never end..y cant I let it go? Its tearing me up..im drained emotionally n physically...im not me anymore ..i have low self esteem n I want me bak..what do I need to do to let him go?could he ever change?
stronganyway Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 He could change....but he won't. Jump ship. Seriously. You deserve better. Don't let him reel you in. I wasted 10 years in a relationship like that. It was a mess. I felt like crap all the time. That's not love.
Nohbody Posted August 21, 2011 Posted August 21, 2011 If you want to salvage the relationship, you could consider relationship counseling. But honestly, trust is the bedrock of a good and healthy relationship, and if that is not there the relationship isn't going to make either of you happy or fulfilled. Disappearing might be a good idea. Change your number, change cities, do whatever you need to do.
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