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Hate myself.. Can't do the NC.. !!


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I'm crying right now.. I saw him.. I begged him to meet each other.. I told him I was sorry... He never said he was sorry.. I'm so confused I don't know who is right and who is wrong... How can I stop loving him? How can I do the NC with him? God! Why this hurts so much? He only gives me breadcrumbs....and I have been taking them... So, what's wrong with me?? Why I am so stupid?? Why I can't just stop loving him?? How can I do the NC?? Where can I find the strenght???

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i jus broke nc after 7 days! you can do it. i dont kno why we subject ourselves to this, but if we dont disconnect ourselves emotionally. it gets worse. i was good... now im so upset...

 

jus find the strength to do it, you may fail a few times, but do it to heal!!! just get back up when you fall. if he wants you, nothing will stop him.

 

& if he doesnt, nothing will make him..

 

im sorry! be strong!!

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jus find the strength to do it, you may fail a few times, but do it to heal!!! just get back up when you fall. if he wants you, nothing will stop him.

 

& if he doesnt, nothing will make him..

 

im sorry! be strong!!

 

Confused, thats top advice, hope you are taking it for yourself too ;)

 

Sweet honey eyes... You are in the hardest part right now, once you realise that there is nowhere to go but NC things will get much easier. Let youself hurt and be torn up, what you are going through is normal. Post on here to vent, you can make it!

 

Aussie

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I managed 45 days after a couple of tries but then she called and here we go again.

Now I am on 10 days NC

 

Just think of it as each time u call he goes further away

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I'm crying right now.. I saw him.. I begged him to meet each other.. I told him I was sorry... He never said he was sorry.. I'm so confused I don't know who is right and who is wrong... How can I stop loving him? How can I do the NC with him? God! Why this hurts so much? He only gives me breadcrumbs....and I have been taking them... So, what's wrong with me?? Why I am so stupid?? Why I can't just stop loving him?? How can I do the NC?? Where can I find the strenght???

 

We all know the pain. Trust me it will die down with time. For now, keep mourning. It's all part of the process.

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