mavlast Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 I was talking to a girl on the phone and we grew to "like" each other: talking dirty, sharing secrets, etc. I understand that doing all this was premature, but what can I do now, right? We had our first date on Friday and she told me to "text her when I got home." I did, and now it is Wednesday and I haven't gotten one response. Also, I am no longer friends with her on Facebook, but I'm not sure who deleted whom (she hasn't even been on since Saturday morning, last time I checked a few days ago). At first glance, it seems easy -- she just lost interest. But some things that she said before clue me in to that there may be another explanation, and since I did like her quite a bit I'd like to get to the bottom of it if I can. First, we are of different religions: she is Christian and I am non-religious. We discussed this on the phone and briefly when we met, and both times she became emotional. Maybe the afterlife implications are painful for her. Secondly, apparently I remind her of someone that screwed her over in a really nasty way; she told me when we were on the phone that that made her hesitant to get closer to me, even though she liked me. Finally, I'm moving about 200mi away in a few days, and when she hinted me about this ("you're going to forget all about me down there ...") I didn't really give her a romantic response because I thought it was too early to tell. I sent her a text along the lines of "Hey, it's too bad things didn't work out. At the same time, I'd be interested to learn what happened" a few days ago. Would it be good to send something else, like "Hey, if something is bothering you I really want to set you at ease. I know we'll be far away but I want to make it work, etc. If you don't respond then this will be my last message"?
zengirl Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 You already made several threads about this. You had one date. It's time to get over it.
Author mavlast Posted August 18, 2011 Author Posted August 18, 2011 You already made several threads about this. You had one date. It's time to get over it. Zen, Kindly bugger off. Thanks
thatone Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 irony. that's what she's thinking about you right now.
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