Should I date in Argentina or U.S.?

[Oxy Moronovich]

And when I say guys, I literally mean guys, men, because I think they'll give me a more understanding answer.

 

Ok, I'm a 26 yr old Yankee from Buffalo, NY living in Austin. I recently got a job offer to be an expat in Buenos Aires, Argentina. On the other hand, there are talks for me to work down in Houston making almost $10,000 more than I would in Argentina.

 

Here's the thing: around 10 yrs. ago my bro went down to Mexico and visited crazy towns and villages. One town he visited the men had a saying, "If you do not have sex every day of your life, then you are not a man." I've always felt that was swesome. Since then, my dream has been to have sex at least once a day for 365 days straight at least. So far, 14 is the highest I've gotten.

 

However, I've visited Argentina for a few months years ago and it was great. I made many friends and met great women. I've a lot of negative things from expats who lived in Buenos Aires, but one thing they agree on is Argentina has probably the best nightlife in the Americas. They also agree that it's easy to form relationships. I'm glad because the women I saw were some of the most passionate and beautiful I've ever seen.

 

If I stay in the U.S. I'll make more money and possibly save more (contrary to popular belief, it's not cheaper in Argentina than U.S.; in fact, it can be more expensive than NYC and LA). However, Argentine women are much, much more friendly than women in the States. U.S. women rank really low when it comes to friendliness, while Argentine women rank high (sometimes it feels like I need a crowbar to get these American women to open their legs). Whereas it's much, much easier to get laid in Argentina, and prostitution and infidelity are more commonplace.

 

I don't care if I have to bang prostitutes or married women. I just want to make my dream of having sex 365 days straight a reality. In the U.S., it would be quite difficult; in Argentina, it would be quite easy. But the U.S. means more money.

 

My real life friends are divided on the issue. So I decided to ask anonymous men this question as I feel they will be more straightforward. Which dating option should I choose: the U.S., more money, colder women. Argentina, less money, warmer women.

[Oxy Moronovich]

Go to Argentina.

 

I think the culture there is probably less prudish than here. Which means less conservative women.

Definitely less prudish. Women down there aren't going to scream, "Pervert!" for looking down their blouse of checking their rear. As long as you keep your hands to yourself until she says go for it, then it's all in good fun.

 

Maybe you could hop over to Brazil for Carnival which is like the worlds biggest party.

I was thinking the exact same thing.

BTW, this sex for 365 days thing? Can it be with the same girl because if so that isn't that hard to accomplish in the US either.

Wow. A couple friends of mine said the exact same thing, "It's not that hard to get laid 365 days straight in the States, dude." When I asked them if they'd done it, they both became evasive. When I pressed further one ran off excuses, while the other said he'd already done it. My other buds and I laughed at him cuz we knew that was a total lie.

 

I don't have to have sex with the same girl. But an honest guy living in the States would say it's far from an easy goal to accomplish. The guys who say it is are just lying out their butts.

[Oxy Moronovich]

If it can be with the same girl then I don't see what is so hard? If you are in a LTR you will have sex pretty much everyday. Though it was never a goal of mine I have probably come pretty close. Maybe missed a day here or there because I was sick or got injured or she was out of town or something like that.

Wow. Wow. Wow. My other friend said exact same thing. No lie.

 

While one of my friends lied and said he already did it, another of my friends said he could do it but never did it because he was injured, sick, too far away, bored, etc. I think he was lying cuz guys like to brag about their sex lives. I checked your profile to see if you were male and found out this quote:

 

Thanks for your responses everybody.

 

My GF chooses when we have sex not me, so I don't really understand what Carhill and Dorie were saying. If I am being touchy-feely, and she doesn't want sex then she knows that sex isn't going to happen so no reason to get mad? I am healthy adult male so I pretty much want sex anytime and she knows that.

 

 

I bet you were lying when you said you could do it every day. You're a healthy adult male who wants sex anytime but haven't had sex for 365 days straight. Why not? Oh, because you're too busy being sick and injured? Right.

 

The reason why you don't do it because you're girlfriend nows she can use sex to control you. And since you're an average guy like me, you find it difficult to work your way around it. Unlike me, you choose to lie about yourself, brag about yourself to a bunch of anonymous people, and blame your sex life on injuries or sickness.

 

I love the internet: it gives a bunch of lonely people an opportunity to fabricate themselves as hottest thing on the catwalk.

 

More to the point: in a survey was given to women in countries all over the world, asking them if they preferred chocolate, shopping, or sex. Most women chose shopping and chocolate over sex (like Italians and Brazilians), while Spanish and Argentine women chose sex more than any other nationality.

 

ptp, in the U.S., our girlfriends will withhold sex because they know we don't have many options. In Argentina, there is less withholding sex and there are more options when it comes to getting laid.

[Cee]

Whichever country you choose, be sure to use a condom and spermicide. Argentina has an HIV rate of 1 in 200. The state of Texas has a rate of 1 in 305. Get HIV and STD tested every 90 days to make sure you haven't picked something up like hepatitis, herpes, etc. I don't think you can get tested for HPV, but if you see warts, then you got one of the many strains of the virus.

 

Here's an HIV risk calculator you can try. Enter you the prospective number of partners and sex acts and see how much your risk increases.

 

http://www.aidsgame.com/

[Oxy Moronovich]

Dude, your quotes completely contradict one another.

My GF chooses when we have sex not me, so I don't really understand what Carhill and Dorie were saying. If I am being touchy-feely, and she doesn't want sex then she knows that sex isn't going to happen so no reason to get mad? I am healthy adult male so I pretty much want sex anytime and she knows that.

 

lets put it this way, I take full advantage of BF status.

 

She's not in the mood? Well I am going to get her in the mood. Sleep? we don't need no stinkin sleep.

 

Unless she is sick or injured it is go time.

Your first quote says your GF chooses sex and if she doesn't choose sex then it ain't happening. The other one says you put her in the mood. You are a liar, dude. What about these quotes?

 

 

 

 

People are often too quick to suggest breaking up if a person isn't an ideal relationship and I understand why. However, it isn't so easy to cut and run.

 

For a guy like who looks like me it isn't easy to get girls so the choice is to stay in a non-ideal relationship or not be in a relationship at all.

 

I love her, she loves me, she respects me and treats me well so things aren't ideal; best to just deal with it.

 

 

 

 

When I meet a girl I always feel I have to spend enough time with her so she is emotionally invested in me before we start anything physical (because I am afraid she will reject me if she wasn't). Even then, I try to keep my shirt on as much as possible. As you can imagine the GFs I have been with don't really like me keeping my shirt on during sex.

 

I have had a few GFs and all my sexual experiences are with them. I have never had a 1 night stand or just causal sex. However, I really want to.

 

I am average looking at best so it isn't often when I a girl comes right out and shows interest in me.

 

The posts say you're shy around women, slow to show physical intimacy, and have had sex with only a few women. But now you're bragging that you get women in the mood all the time? Yeah, that's believable, amigo.

[musemaj11]

Whats your priority? Money or women?

 

For me, I would take women over money anytime.

[Oxy Moronovich]

Whichever country you choose, be sure to use a condom and spermicide. Argentina has an HIV rate of 1 in 200. The state of Texas has a rate of 1 in 305. Get HIV and STD tested every 90 days to make sure you haven't picked something up like hepatitis, herpes, etc. I don't think you can get tested for HPV, but if you see warts, then you got one of the many strains of the virus.

 

Here's an HIV risk calculator you can try. Enter you the prospective number of partners and sex acts and see how much your risk increases.

 

http://www.aidsgame.com/

Thank you for that post. I truly mean it. It's always best to be safe about such things. I've already favorited the link.

 

Is there a pregnancy risk calculator? I plan on being fatherless cuz I don't want to waste my life raising some brat for 18 years or more of my life. I consider children the worst sexually transmitted disease out there.

[carhill]

I consider children the worst sexually transmitted disease out there.

 

Get a vasectomy. Problem solved.

 

Regarding the OP, I'd take the pay cut and enjoy a year or more as an ex-pat. Expanded horizons are nearly always a good thing.

[Oxy Moronovich]

musemaj11 and carhill, thanks for your input. Expats in Argentina say the cost of living is tough there. So I'm real skeptical about that. But expanding horizons is tempting.

 

ptp, how long have you been with you girl? I read two posts where you were trying to get with a woman whose boob you touched and with a woman who wanted you to drive her home. So either you were trying to cheat on your girl or you just started your relationship with your girl. If it's the latter, then you have not had the opportunity to have sex with your girl 365 days straight. If it's the latter, it means your sex life with your girl was unfruitful. In both cases, you're a liar.

[Jynxx]

OP, if you say 10k more, that's per year or per month?