drewdude Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Hello LS, would really like some advice on this situation. Theres this girl I guess you can say I'm "talking to", we are both 27, here it goes... I met this girl who my friend use to work with about 2 months ago(my friend introduced me to her when I met up with them at a bar). About a little over a month ago she adds me on FB through him. three weeks ago, she starts talking to me over facebook and we start chatting here and therel. 2 weeks ago, she invites me over...I go over almost every day or every other day(she initiates I rarely ask) We have a lot of things in common, click really well and always have fun together. We gone out to a few bars, gone to dinner, she texts me everyday throughout the day. A couple nights ago, on my way home from her house I got a txt from her that read "let me know when you get home:)" which was a first from her. Last week she straight out asked me if I was seeing or talking to anyone other women..I said no just her..and she was like ahh thats nice. I just dont really know how to progress this next. When we watch movies at her house we sit next to eachother, I have even layed down next to her on her bed but nothing really happens..she has poked my cheek dimple or poked my side but thats the extent. I am just confused as to where I stand with this What do you fellow LS' think of this situation? I could really use the advice, I dont want to be "that girls good friend" because honestly I like this girl and want to be beyond that. Thank you so much for taking the time to read this. Have a great day
somedude81 Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 So you've been to her place almost every day for two weeks and you haven't tried anything?
Author drewdude Posted August 17, 2011 Author Posted August 17, 2011 no havent tried anything.....to be honest I am use to girls making the first move...but then this is the first time im talking to someone whos as old as me and not a few years younger. Shes kinda got a strong personallity. I dont know if that makes a difference.
Casablanca Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Put your arm around her next time you're watching a movie or laying on the couch together....thats a start
Cypress25 Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 MAKE A MOVE ALREADY! She did make the first move. In fact, she made the first 20 moves. She's been initiating everything up to this point, and you're not responding. Do you expect her to do everything for you? This is beta male behavior to the extreme, expecting the girl to take you by the hand and lead the way. If I were her, I would assume you're either gay or not interested in her.
Author drewdude Posted August 18, 2011 Author Posted August 18, 2011 well yesterday she hit me up AGAIN to hang out and we did...hung out for many hours...when I got home last night and texted her I kinda threw in the fact that I liked her, I just decided to bite the bullet and say screw it. Havent heard from her yet its still early so will see what happens..
iJester Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Of course you haven't heard from her. You go over there everyday and you don't have the balls to tell her you like her to her face. If you don't make a move soon, you're finished. Next time you see her, just ****ing kiss her...that's what she was asking for when she started poking your dimple.
betterdeal Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 You're well in there! 1. Forget text / email / Facebook / all other means of saying something from a distance 2. Kiss her 3. Bone her 4. Rinse and repeat.
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