Azaroth Posted May 2, 2004 Posted May 2, 2004 Sum up this story, and how i feel right now.. 6 months of hooking up with this girl, i wanted something serious and she didn't... I heard stories that she hooked up with people, and i asked her if she has been hooking up with people she said no. "said she didn't want to hurt my feelings" So a month went by, and i finally broke contact wit hher. and she said she missed me and watned a relationship with me, and so next day - i said ok i believe what you said and, moved forward. We spend Sun,Monday, and Tuesday night with each other and Friday night she slept over - had sex and then she stayed till noon time then we went to lunch. She was going out with girls, and said i eventualyl we will meet up and i said jokely if ya lucky.. and i think she got a little offended, but i been saying that since like day 1. She called me drunk on the phone, and started talking saying oh you going ot this place, i said yes and she said maybe i will see you down there.. she didn't go down that night which is no biggy.. and today, i didn't really talk to her... i called her up and she was short what you do today, study thats it. how was your day... and she was just very short most of the time she would try and talk back and forht and i asked her what's wrong she said nothing and i am not going to keep forcing a conversation with her so i said i will talk t oyou later. I feel that, i made a mistake of rushing into this to fast.. b/c i feel that i am not sure if she is real with what she said, and not sure if things will be good.. but what do i say after i said, yes? you know? like i can't just say i don't want to go out anymore.. i asked her what she saw me in and she just pinched me I asked the night we had sex what do you want to do? she said what are the options and she said she didn't know and wanted me to decide... so i went for sex.. i love this girl, but i don't want to be jerked around she did that to me before.. and i just don't know anything about relationships where the boundries are, or anything this is new to me.. I don't know if she is doing this so she has someone over the summer, or doing this to clear her name of a repuation - she had a rumor spread around by her with this guy she hooked up with and she feels like a whore... but it is not true.. I am lost with words and i know i love this girl, but no clue what to do
bluechocolate Posted May 2, 2004 Posted May 2, 2004 Six months of hooking up with this girl - you want something more - she doesn't ( or so it seems from your post ) i love this girl, but i don't want to be jerked around she did that to me before You don't want to hear this let her go move on If she then decides that she wants to be with you tell her what the boundaries are for you two to have a successful relationship.
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