chucksagent Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 ...let guys down nicely when they hit on you in public? Let's say you have a boyfriend or are married. My girlfriend is a people pleaser who doesn't like to be mean or hurt feelings...How can she let a guy down politely and not appear mean when being hit on in public? Even if it's subtle hitting on. I.e. they don't come right out and ask if she has a boyfriend or ask her out, BUT she can tell they are interested.
fatgalslim Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 guys who could just approach women they meet on the street... they are usually quite bold & seasoned in a way, most of them can take rejections out right. what i used to do is i'd just tell them no... i'm sorry... with a smile & walked off quickly. but if they are persistent and ask for my hp number, to shake them off, i would suggest they give me theirs and i'd tell them i would call them.. well of course that's a white lie. hehe.
Saphira Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 she can always bring you up in the middle of the conversation. like if he asks her if she loves coffee. she can say yes, have you ever been to such and such place. me and my boyfriend go there all the time. they have amazing coffee. something like that. doesnt have to be rude or mean. just something in the middle of the conversation but also makes them aware that she is spoken for.
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