Randino Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Not really sure where to post this question so ill just place it here for now... I've had a group of 3 friends plus myself (3 guys 1 gal) for as long as i can remember. So now Fast Forward to where 2 of them had been dating for about 13 months and theres a sudden breakup. Now 4 weeks later they have tried to take steps to “remain good friends” and keep the dynamic we've had so many years. Throughout all this I've been the shoulder for her to cry on. I hear the ins and outs of all their feelings and know, she is clinging on to a hope that they may someday get back together. Fairly recently during a trip to the guys apt he told me he has Zero intention of ever being with her again and he “Means It.” And happening more and more frequently I hear about them having random “**** buddy” type sex. And then shortly thereafter I'm ankle deep in Captain Morgan and a crying best friend. My question is this; would it be a bad thing for me to tell her the truth about the situation? At times it feels like: “well hey its not my business maybe I should just butt out” and could this potentially tear a complete rift between us all. I'm having incredible trepidation about it because I can NOT stand to see her suffer every time. It feels like he's just using her. It clearly means more to her than to him. Perhaps I'm just reading too far into the situation.
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