xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 McDonald's has some pretty good salads these days at least. But yeah, a picnic and a bike ride or hike sounds like a fantastic date! You come home from something like that feeling so good and - how should I say it - aired out! Truth about the salads I do LOVE Portillos Chop Salad but unless you live in the midwest I don't think there are Portillos?!?! The dressing is my favorite, honestly though some of those salads at McDonalds have just as many calories as the Big Mac lol. I really don't count calories but after Super Size me I can't really even look at fast food. I love outdoorsy dates cause I am the most comfertable outside lol. Fresh air is the best!!! After you are outside you just feel rejuvinated. THE BEST!
sally4sara Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Truth about the salads I do LOVE Portillos Chop Salad but unless you live in the midwest I don't think there are Portillos?!?! The dressing is my favorite, honestly though some of those salads at McDonalds have just as many calories as the Big Mac lol. I really don't count calories but after Super Size me I can't really even look at fast food. I love outdoorsy dates cause I am the most comfertable outside lol. Fresh air is the best!!! After you are outside you just feel rejuvinated. THE BEST! I know! Isn't it great when two people can just enjoy each others company without getting out the calculator to assess how much the other values them?
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 17, 2011 Author Posted August 17, 2011 Love&Such, Have you thought about re-evaluating what is really important in a SO? I have read a couple of your threads and especially the "Gentleman are dead" thread. After reading about what you want and expect a guy for do for you, it seems to me that you have significantly narrowed your pool of daters. In that "Gentleman are dead" thread I shared openly and honestly about my experiences with women and I read your responses to my posts. Knowing what little I know about you through your posts, I would never even approach a woman like you. That isn't meant as a insult. It is just that what you are looking for in a guy and what the typical guy is are soo different. I consider myself a pretty decent guy but, after reading your posts I know I would never measure up to what you have in your mind. I know a lot of guys, a lot of single guys and I doubt any of them would fit your checklist and demands either. Good thoughts and you may be onto something here. But, plenty of people do not measure up to what the another persons wishes are and is the reason the two parties do not get together. I do have picky criteria that must be met in order to maintain my interest. But, I believe most people do. I do need to start engaging more, I can be a little reluctant, or tired after a day of engaging in greetings and such. I believe at times I might come across as unapproachable. Have been told this by friends. I think magnifying my flirtaceous side will be beneficial. Hopefully I will come across as more open to approach.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 17, 2011 Author Posted August 17, 2011 Truth about the salads I do LOVE Portillos Chop Salad but unless you live in the midwest I don't think there are Portillos?!?! The dressing is my favorite, honestly though some of those salads at McDonalds have just as many calories as the Big Mac lol. I really don't count calories but after Super Size me I can't really even look at fast food. I love outdoorsy dates cause I am the most comfertable outside lol. Fresh air is the best!!! After you are outside you just feel rejuvinated. THE BEST! This thread is not about food or how you enjoy cheap dating. Please start your own thread if you wish to take the subject off topic.
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 This thread is not about food or how you enjoy cheap dating. Please start your own thread if you wish to take the subject off topic. I'm sorry that you are that mad about someone else having a conversation. Don't take it out on me though for doing nothing wrong or mean to you.
sally4sara Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 This thread is not about food or how you enjoy cheap dating. Please start your own thread if you wish to take the subject off topic. How lovely of you. She doesn't even tell you you are the kind of person she would never approach for a date or say anything rude to you at all and because its a woman in your thread - you gotta be a bitch. Like I said - totally a dude trying to pretend to be a woman. OR a completely rancid chick. Either way, why should anyone care about your problems? Go tell them to your house keeper. She at least gets paid to deal with you.
xoxoDaniellexoxo Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 S4S I started a new thread we can talk more there!
sally4sara Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 S4S I started a new thread we can talk more there! It will probably smell better too.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 17, 2011 Author Posted August 17, 2011 I'm sorry that you are that mad about someone else having a conversation. Don't take it out on me though for doing nothing wrong or mean to you. I am not taking anything out on you, I am merely asking that if you have nothing to contribute on topic, start your own thread about cheap salads with Donna and Sally. I do not wish for this thread to end up in the Rich man vs. Middle class man vs. Blue collar man thread. People should enjoy what they like in life. People have their own styles and tastes.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 17, 2011 Author Posted August 17, 2011 It will probably smell better too. Bye now!
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 17, 2011 Author Posted August 17, 2011 How lovely of you. She doesn't even tell you you are the kind of person she would never approach for a date or say anything rude to you at all and because its a woman in your thread - you gotta be a bitch. Like I said - totally a dude trying to pretend to be a woman. OR a completely rancid chick. Either way, why should anyone care about your problems? Go tell them to your house keeper. She at least gets paid to deal with you. Funny, I believe, I have not said a word in reference to any woman's preferences on this board, that was not in retaliation of being trolled or a good subject for debate. Rancid chick?, I answered Zengirl in a toned down manner because she did not jump in and start attacking my thread or attack my personal style and preferences. I do not have to detail any specific default in your character, you have just spoke volumes about yourself in this thread alone, about your frame of mind, thank you, I have not had to overextend my patience and exert too much energy toward your negative attitudes for your true characters to be unveiled yet again. Prrrrrrrr, meow! BTW...I was able to pinpoint my jumping the gun and being negative a few times, last week into this week, because I was in a state of anxiety ending an all consuming relationship which rewards were spectacular. I choose to be a better person and not waste my time being hateful toward others. I know I am better than that, and if all joking is to be put aside, because I love humor, I choose to not directly trample over and herd onto others threads and insult them with personal attacks just because their styles and tastes are light years apart. Now that the violins have stopped playing, go away and participate in your own threads if you have zero interest in being positive and sincere in mine.
ascendotum Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 (edited) I do prefer open relationships, care free, and light, but also more meaning than booty calls or FWBs. But, open relationships are not without their problems. I had a long term open relationship awhile back with a guy. We shared everything. We were cool with dating others. There were many instances, that were not, however. I went out for the evening, and met a gorgeous, fun, funny, and life of the party guy. I saw that my friend was there with friends and a date. I just kept my distance. I was leaving with fun guy.... OP - I'm curious how does an FWB differ from an open relationship to you? I know you say you dont care for labels, but you make a distinction here. Is an open relationship more special simply because you both lived under the same roof or because there is a higher level of emotional bonding? Also it does seem strange to me, a woman who complains about the era of gentlemen disappearing, but who also enjoys being in open realtionships and carousing with other guys besides her gentleman. Edited August 17, 2011 by ascendotum
Anela Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 OP - I'm curious how does an FWB differ from an open relationship to you? I know you say you dont care for labels, but you make a distinction here. Is an open relationship more special simply because you both lived under the same roof or because there is a higher level of emotional bonding? Also it does seem strange to me, a woman who complains about the era of gentlemen disappearing, but who also enjoys being in open realtionships and carousing with other guys besides her gentleman. I was wondering the same thing. When I saw your thread about the gentlemen disappearing, I thought you wanted a serious relationship with a man - something stable, sexy and committed.
Author LoveandSuch Posted August 18, 2011 Author Posted August 18, 2011 OP - I'm curious how does an FWB differ from an open relationship to you? I know you say you dont care for labels, but you make a distinction here. Is an open relationship more special simply because you both lived under the same roof or because there is a higher level of emotional bonding? Also it does seem strange to me, a woman who complains about the era of gentlemen disappearing, but who also enjoys being in open realtionships and carousing with other guys besides her gentleman. A gentleman is a gentleman in all relationships, with the exception of enemies. FWB is a new term thrown around lately meaning F-buddy or booty call. An open relationship does tend to include emotional bonding without too much committment and not all the pressures that go along with exclusive relationships. Open and honest. Not just calling when horny or bored, and more times than not with FWBs they are hiding a GF, BF, and what not. In an open relationship their is no his, her, or mine. That is what I like most about one, no pressures, no ownership. Deeper feelings may often come into play and that is when tougher decisions must be made. Some people may refer to FWB when they reall mean open as in a relationship, not just an extended one night stand which I equate with F-buddy. Hope that helps with understanding. Another thing to mention, is in an open relationship, there may not be any fooling around with others, depends on the partners and their mindframe.
musemaj11 Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Ha ha ha! You are funny! What is your definition of a lady, Maj? Please, do not hesitate to respond, my anticipation for your response is in overdrive. My definition of a lady is as 1950s as your definition of a gentleman.
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