Author Thehusband2 Posted August 18, 2011 Author Posted August 18, 2011 thanks everyone. I appreciate it... @jnj: you are right and I already talked to her about going to clubs/bars and coming home drunk...she no longer does that. To clarify it wasnt a regular thing to begin with, but when she went out 2 times in a month and came home drunk and a bit late...I told her that I felt it wasn't appropriate and she didnt do it again...I'm ok with that. I will talk to her about how I feel about her friend's cheating and get her view on that. As another poster said, that view might enlighted me as to her line of thinking. Also, I am curious as to the advice she has given her friend. Remember I just overheard that one snippet, but to this point have yet to talk to my wife about this because we have a house full of guest now + 2 kids + work, so I haven't had a chance to sit down and chat in the last several days. About contact other guy, well I a m a believer in informed consent, that you have a right to know about everything that pertains to you!!! A secret affair goes against that no doubt and I am looking into some way to let him know in an anonymous way........
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