koalabear Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 So me and my ex have been apart for a while now, she has been thinking things through about our relationship and she still loves me, but dosnt want to be my girlfriend right now, but she thinks we will be together in the end. The thing is, recently she told me that she dosnt see me as a sexual person anymore and I dont know how/why this happened. I think this could be one of the reasons we split up in the first place. She says she just sees me as a person she likes to cuddle rather than have sex with, and im confused! She just thinks im cute, how can we be happily together again with her finding me sexualy attractive? is it even possible?
Chi townD Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 The reason she doesn't find you sexually attractive (which is a cruel way to put it, by the way) is because she's sexually attracted to someone else. If she's already told you that there's no one else, I would be inclined not to believe her. So, she gets to cuddle with you and be frisky with someone else. This is called cake eating. If your broken up, then it's over. No being friends. No texts, phone calls or e-mails. De-friend on facebook. She can have either 100% of you or she has none of you.
Mcnulty Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 The nail's been put in the coffin, if she's told you that i'm afraid. If she is also saying you may end upmbacktogether, she is keeping you as a safety net, whilst she ventures onto pastures new. I'd walk if I were you. As chi-town said, NC is the way forward for you now.
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