confusedndhurt Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 Well, after 2 years we have broken up. I cant eat,sleep, and I cant quit thinking about her. She wont respond to my attempts to talk/text. All my stuff is there, bills in my name etc. As always there is alot to it, but I have done all I can do and even more than I shouldve. I'm trying to see a psychiatrist, maybe they know something I don't. We were gonna get married. I have never wanted to marry anyone before. This hurts so bad. WTF! She said noboy has ever treated her as good as I did, and still it didnt work. I will never let anybody get this close to me again. I'm sure she will find some loser so she can work on his problems to avoid dealing with hers. That will be great. I just dont know what to do. Sorry.
CaliBabe Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 I'm sorry you are going through this hurt. Sometimes when you want something too much you end up losing it. Try to refocus and make yourself your priority. Every woman loves a confident and strong man. Maybe she will come around. Good luck buddy.
Chi townD Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 No apologies needed. But, what happened between the two of you that lead to a break up?
lovesickmonkey Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 I'm sure she will find some loser so she can work on his problems to avoid dealing with hers. This makes me wonder ... about the one who left me and the one who left you. Does she have problems that she avoids addressing? Did she try to solve your problems? I sometimes think my ex chose me as a "fixer-upper." Maybe I was healthier than she thought so she gave up?
Author confusedndhurt Posted August 16, 2011 Author Posted August 16, 2011 Why we broke up is complicated. Basicly her brother is a loser. Dope, irresponsible, all that. I put her first always, she could never put me first. She was always cleaning up all these messes made by all her friends nd I didnt like it, because it ate into my time with her. I told her how i felt, nd said she didnt care she wasnt gonna change anything. So she goes if its not gonna work out in the long run, lets end it now.
Surf Rider Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Well, after 2 years we have broken up. I cant eat,sleep, and I cant quit thinking about her. She wont respond to my attempts to talk/text. All my stuff is there, bills in my name etc. As always there is alot to it, but I have done all I can do and even more than I shouldve. I'm trying to see a psychiatrist, maybe they know something I don't. We were gonna get married. I have never wanted to marry anyone before. This hurts so bad. WTF! She said noboy has ever treated her as good as I did, and still it didnt work. I will never let anybody get this close to me again. I'm sure she will find some loser so she can work on his problems to avoid dealing with hers. That will be great. I just dont know what to do. Sorry. I'm right there with you man. Hang in there. My ex said the same thing. It hurt real bad. Time heals all things though. Good luck
Artmayer Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 I am so sorry about it! It will hurt until you won't let it go.. It's realy hard to lose someone whom you love so much, but its fu..ing life! U have to take the way it is. I know what i am saying.. If she come back she would go again...Try ti spend time with your friends and family. Try to love to be alone. Your freedom is amazinf, you just need to understand it. Don't think about her future, ur future is more important.Everything will be awesome, I promise.. Hugs!
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