intigo Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 im 29 my ex is 28 she is a wonderfull girl im deeply in love with her. she was hurt in the past and really had lost trust in men she was in denial she has a lot of fears.when i met her we were dating for a month until she said i see you as i friend i continued dating her and after 5 days!!! she felt she was falling for me we made love after 10 days and i thought she was feeling like i was, but she told me her feelings come and go... she told me i want to fall in love with you!!! after 3 months she said she is not in love with me i am all she ever wanted but shes not in love.we broke up 14 days ago i went NC she told me there no chance in the future but shes not sure!! i might regret this but its going to be to late!! whats thats suppose to mean? i am really confused i cant believe i lost her do i have any hope in the future with her? she was really sincere to me from the begining she says she has a lot of things in her mind and wants to be alone should i go to LC?
danceallday Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 Give her the space. Also re-read what you posted. She is up/down, back/forth. She does not know what she wants really. That is a problem in her, not a problem in you. Establish NC and go out with friends and hang out with supportive people. Keep busy, do things for yourself.
Author intigo Posted August 16, 2011 Author Posted August 16, 2011 i know she has issues i know shes tottaly confused she admited she needs to see a psychologist but should i delete her from my life? i really care for her i want an other chance cause i know i can make her happy
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