english1234 Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 I really need help I am 16 and am completely in love with my ex-boyfriend. We went out when I was 14, for two months, but he was chasing me for 3 months before that, he broke up with his girlfriend for me, so I was scared what people would say, that's why I kept him hanging for so long. We kept in touch, just on and off, over the past year and a half, and he has a new girlfriend who he has been going out with for about 15 months. He told me two months ago, that he was still in love with me, and always has been, but he is equally in love with his girlfriend. We have been through so much, and I love him with everything I have, we talk on the phone, we text nearly everyday, but he said he can't break his girlfriend's heart, yet this is breaking mine. I really don't see myself with anyone but him, and he kept saying 'unfournatuately, this is the way it has to be', and told me later down the line, if he was single we would go back out again. I can't wait for later down the line, I need him now. He says all he wants is for me to be happy, and he said he frequently thinks about me. I was out with a big group of friends at the weekend and he and his girlfriend where there, and he flirted with me so much, like hugging me, squeezed my hand, told me he was glad to see me, and I ended up on the phone with him when I got home. If I'm being honest, I think he is choosing to stay with his girlfriend because that is the easiest option, that way, no one will ask any questions. I'm sick of people saying 'move on, he's not worth it', I can't, this is real, and I need him more than I need anything in this world. Please, can someone tell me what they think this all means?
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