lifeisshort85 Posted August 16, 2011 Posted August 16, 2011 My husband cheated on me while TDY (he’s in the army) with someone from craigslist. He doesn’t come back for another six weeks and I am miserable, can’t eat or sleep but I still have to take care of our two kids. Atfirst he was very remorseful and said he doesn’t know what’s wrong with him and was going to get counseling, but I told him I didn’t know if I could stay with him. But when I let my jealous crazy wifeness out and started checking the phone records and even went as far as calling the numbers on there and fb messaging one of his new woman friend’s husband, now he wants a divorce. He recently got back from his second tour in Iraq and we’ve had some issues from before the deployment but we’ve been doing good and having fun together. I am mad at him but I do still love him. I want him to get help because he has not been in his right mind for a while, but will there ever be a chance for us to be together?? I hate myself for going crazy jealous and making things worse but I didn’t think it was fair that he was going to still have fun and party the next six weeks when I’m home miserable and don’t know anybodyhere. I don’t want to just let him off the hookfor the cheating, cuz I don’t want it to happen again but I think that’ssomething we’ll have to wait to work on once we see each other. But as of right now he won’t really talk to me and I’m afraid he’s going to do something he’llregret. I know people will think I am dumb for wanting to fix things, but I want to be a family. How do I get him back to wanting me and trying to fix things?
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