dreamingoftigers Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Porn addiction is not comparable to cheating. Sorry I forgot about that one. Yes it is. See how easy it was to settle that? Good try. :-) It is not. Look, I'm going to bump up my thread, or create a new one. In this thread you can have the great and final word. Okay? We can rip it back and forth on the other one if you see fit. Because it is. My lack of future response to prodding does not equal victory or having proven your point. It shows that I have realized that insanity is doing the same thing over and over hoping for different results. Now realizing that I must be insane for allowing the continuation of this, it would be great if you would help me contain it to my thread... Appreciated.
Crabbies Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Imagine being married to that... Not only justifies cheating, clear-cut case for justifiable homicide...
Lecturer Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 (edited) I'm not sure how anyone can stand arguments with people that have the attitude, "I don't care what you say or what evidence you have - it's _____ because I say so". Absolute stubbornness in one's stance, with no ability to consider that they might be wrong, is not a quality that I can tolerate in anyone. These people I avoid/ignore. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnzjqIFvD0s Edited August 17, 2011 by Lecturer
Crabbies Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 I'm not sure how anyone can stand arguments with people that have the attitude, "I don't care what you say or what evidence you have - it's _____ because I say so". Absolute stubbornness in one's stance, with no ability to consider that they might be wrong, is not a quality that I can tolerate in anyone. These people I avoid/ignore. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XnzjqIFvD0s I didn't know he was in television...
nyrias Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 It is not. Kids .. keep on doing that 1000 times until your face is blue and you may win a price.
GG2W Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 I love the I'm always right attitude. You'd be surprised how easy it is to share their wives And being as their always right, they never know
dreamingoftigers Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Kids .. keep on doing that 1000 times until your face is blue and you may win a price. Um, I think we surpassed that mark months ago. No prize yet, must try harder.
manup Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 I ask those who are so strongly attached to the all cheaters are evil, what do you say about those who suffer from a Mid-Life Crisis? In many cases the person who withdraws from the union can be suffering from a form of mental illiness. Their bodies begin to fill their brains with the wrong chemicals and there is nothing that they can do about it. An all to common subject on the Separation and Divorce site is " I Love You, But I Am Not In Love With You". This can come from either gender, but it seems to be more prevelant coming from the wife. Again, their bodies are no longer flooding their brains with love chemicals, and there is nothing they can do about it. And sadly sometimes, such as in Lexy's case, she wishes there was something that they could do. Whether we like it or not, quite often our lives are governed by the chemicals that our bodies produce. Lexy, especially and Onyx, DOT et. al. I urge you to Google "How Love Works" and then click on the HowStuffWorks site. It will explain how we, and especailly women fall in and out of love i forgot that means that she should cheat and not tell him silly us. Save some time and just divorce already.
PatFinkle Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 To be fair about the kids though, my husband was jerking it at McDonald's and won't own up to it :facepalm: Now that's one special sauce we could all do without.
dreamingoftigers Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 I keep telling people not to eat there!
PatFinkle Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Next masturbating is cheating. Come on now. If you masturbate someone else, it is cheating.
manup Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 I keep telling people not to eat there! See that makes sense he has a problem if he's doing that at McDonalds. Lexy's husband not so much.
John Michael Kane Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Sorry I forgot about that one. Good try. :-) Look, I'm going to bump up my thread, or create a new one. In this thread you can have the great and final word. Okay? We can rip it back and forth on the other one if you see fit. Because it is. My lack of future response to prodding does not equal victory or having proven your point. It shows that I have realized that insanity is doing the same thing over and over hoping for different results. Now realizing that I must be insane for allowing the continuation of this, it would be great if you would help me contain it to my thread... Appreciated. Again this has nothing to do with this thread.
John Michael Kane Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Kids .. keep on doing that 1000 times until your face is blue and you may win a price. And how does this help solve the situation.
dreamingoftigers Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Then let's get it back on track. Lexygirl, best of luck. I hope that you find some of the answers you are looking for soon.
John Michael Kane Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 Then let's get it back on track. Lexygirl, best of luck. I hope that you find some of the answers you are looking for soon. That's what I was stating.
Crabbies Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 That's what I was stating. Of course you were, loud and clear...
Calif_hope Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Glad that you posting junkies and great 'I know more than you' and 'I gatta have the last word' debaters are leaving Van's new thread alone - really to bad you ruinning this one with your attention. Wish LS moderators would open a thread for you people so you can demonstrate tobeach other have very brilliant and important you are!
Owl Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 So Lexy...to the crux of the matter then. You've received advice/support/etc... about your dilemma. The real question is...what are you going to DO with this information? You got your input...so how has this impacted your decision/plans/etc...? What are you going to DO about the situation you're in?
John Michael Kane Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Glad that you posting junkies and great 'I know more than you' and 'I gatta have the last word' debaters are leaving Van's new thread alone - really to bad you ruinning this one with your attention. Nobody is "ruining" a thread. Just a normal discussion. Wish LS moderators would open a thread for you people so you can demonstrate tobeach other have very brilliant and important you are! Ok......
John Michael Kane Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 Of course you were, loud and clear... I know.:)
Author Lexygirl Posted August 18, 2011 Author Posted August 18, 2011 So Lexy...to the crux of the matter then. You've received advice/support/etc... about your dilemma. The real question is...what are you going to DO with this information? You got your input...so how has this impacted your decision/plans/etc...? What are you going to DO about the situation you're in? Well I am starting IC and so is he. I am gonna work from there. We had both said (when I came back) that we will give it our all til the end of August and then decide what to do but that was unrealistic. At the same time, I do want to have a open conversation with him at the end of August so we can both say where we are at in our minds and hearts. MC might be in the works soon too. lol not such a concrete answer but it's all I got atm.
dreamingoftigers Posted August 18, 2011 Posted August 18, 2011 I've learned the hard way about putting expiration dates on a marriage. It causes a ton of pressure. I know the fear is that you might let something go on forever, but really we don't tend to prolong things longer then we need to. Eventually you come to a decision what sacrifice you want to make. And either way there is always a sacrifice. That's they sucky thing about relationships, having to puck whether it would be 60% better this way or 40% better that way and what has the best chance of improving and making you both happy. Hope IC helps a lot. :-)
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