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Should I apologize or let it go?


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Two days ago, I asked my boyfriend for an opinion on body types. Being the blunt guy that he is, he gave me an honest answer. I'm okay with my body type, but I'm insecure about someone always looking for someone else better. It's baggage I wish I didn't carry, but alas. I always appreciate his honesty but this time I snapped at him and I said something like "I don't know why I put up with you." It came out in a half-joking but half-serious tone. I think he may have been taken back a little when I said that, I'm not sure.

 

We hung out yesterday and everything was normal. That conversation from the night prior never came up. But I feel really sick inside and really bad about what I said :( I feel like I should apologize to him.

 

I've apologized about stuff in the past that I did do, didn't do, etc whatever and he always acts like it's no big deal and wonders why I'm even apologizing in the first place. I don't want him to think I'm an overly-apologetic person, which I can be sometimes.

 

So should I say sorry about what I said? Or should I let it go because he hasn't brought it up and his behavior is normal?

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At this point, I'd let it go. But next time, try not to create a similar situation.

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If you haven't noticed a change in his behavior, I doubt it registered as harshly as you imagined it.

 

Let it go.

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