Conscience Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 WOW I am recently separated (divorced) and am going through my first online dating experience. I met a woman via an online dating site we went on a first date (lasted 3h) we really connected, we exchanged email addresses and then went on a second date for dinner we both really connected and had a great time the evening went like perfect! That night I never made it home! Next day I sent her an email telling her how a good time I had etc and she responded: “thank you for the lovely evening, It might be a while before we can coordinate timing with both are different joint custody and with me going away next week. We’ll figure something out. Maybe you’ll think of a way to invite me to your place…..” I sent her an email telling her that I was looking forward to hearing from her when she is back from her mini trip , At this point I haven’t sent her an email thinking the ball is in her court is this the right thing to do ??? Help I want to hear from her soo much!
Peace&Love Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 You didn't tell us how much time has passed since the last email you sent. If it's been a few days, go ahead and just send short email saying something along the lines of "I hope your trip is going well. Just want to say hi. Can't wait to see you again."
Cee Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 If she already back from her trip, go ahead and contact her. It sounds like she wants you to invite her over to your place. Tell her you'll make her dinner on a day you are both available. The only thing that seems odd to me is that this isn't being done by telephone. I think the phone is better for setting up dates.
manji123 Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 Agreed. Phone calls are the way to go when asking someone out. Granted later on (much later on) you can do little things like "hey I'm in the area wanna grab lunch" but for now I would call. Just make sure she is back from her trip etc.
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