ConfuseddOne Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 Alright it's almost been three months since she broke up with me. About a month ago is when she found a new guy and they have been talking ever since then. I still think he's using her but it doesn't matter what I think. Anyways I used to randomly run into her at places after our breakup but I finally decided to stop going to those mutual places. We don't text or talk anymore cause I'm doing the NC thing. Long story short I'm out in the club this past weekend having a good time dancing with alot of girls and then I see her. Well I'm not gonna stand around so I continue doing what I'm doing. As I'm heading to the bar to get a drink I walked past her and her group of friends. I then felt a piece of ice hit my back. Did her or one of her friends really throw ice at me? lol anyways she kept looking and staring me down all night long giving me those looks yall know what I'm talking about. Towards closing time I noticed her and her friends leaving the club a little early. After I left I decided to swing by her house cause we live right down the street from each other and yep you guessed it. I see the guy shes been talking withs truck there around 3 Am. I wonder if that was because she saw me that night? We have two classes together that start in another two weeks. My plan is to continue doing what I'm doing the NC thing until we see each other in class. Thoughts?* Also I met a random girl in walmart this past weekend. Very cute, long hair blue eyed blonde like my EX. Shes that cheerleader girly girl type and seems like a really good girl. We had a good conversation, i was making her laugh alot. Towards the end of our conversation I decided to give her my number. Its been two days she hasn't called or texted me. Shes fixing to start at my school*and seemed like my type. Anyways now I wish I would have gotten her number but instead I tried the whole "Give your number to her" thing. Soo thoughts on that? Tomorrow will be the third day if this happens again to another random cute girl should I just GET her number instead?
Chi townD Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 Sorry, but I don't know the look that "y'all know what I'm talking about." Sad, angry, indifferent, disgusted? Well, if you're on here, it kinda tells me that you're not completely over her and you shouldn't be hooking up with anyone until you are COMPLETELY over her. It's not being fair to you or the girl your with. Although, I do applaud you for getting on with your life and not sitting at home as just one big ol' depressed mess. As for her, forget about her. You driving past her place and seeing someone else's car in the driveway...one of two things. She might have known you have to drive past her house on the way home and she wanted to make you jealous and let you know, "Look, I'm moving on two and catching an STD with some random guy." or she just doesn't care. You're better off without her.
antinko Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 Your ex sounds like she acts like a 7 year old. Props for just carrying on doing your thing even though she was out there with her friends. /thumbsup I know how hard it is to do that.
Author ConfuseddOne Posted August 16, 2011 Author Posted August 16, 2011 (edited) The kind of look a girl gives you that says. "what the he'll are you doing here?" "Alright I know he sees me why isn't he paying attention to me" "is he really dancing with her?" "Why Is he ignoring me?" Definitely the "Disgusted" look. She wasn't really sad more suprised to see me and couldn't take her eyes off me. After she seen me dancing with all kinds of girls she which i know got to her she then started dancing with other guys. I guess to play along with the game. Well I know for a fact I'm not over her or your right I wouldn't be posting on here. Actually I've already hooked up with four other girls since our breakup and each one started to like me like "That." I have just told each one I'm still not over my Ex and I'm just having fun. Anyways her best friend is having problems with her boyfriend. She is pretty much the mastermind behind our breakup. She is the one who got in her head and told her all kinds of things to which she finally dumped me. I think they are about to breakup, Will that have any effect on maybe getting my ex back? Also I am trying hard to move on hince the new girl I met and gave my phone number to. Who by the way still hasn't contacted me. Life after a breakup with someone you love is very hard :/ I'm just taking it day by day, by day by day, by day amen. Edited August 16, 2011 by ConfuseddOne Grammar
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