befuddled11 Posted May 1, 2004 Posted May 1, 2004 Dump him and begin a search for a man out there who doesn't watch porn. Be sure to pack a lunch though, and some extra clothes because your search could take a very long time.
zarathustra Posted May 1, 2004 Posted May 1, 2004 Take a large hammer and smash the PC, television set, VCR and DVD players. That should slow him down--at least for a little while. If the wanton destructuion of all that high priced electronic equipment is a bit much, tell him to stop. Make him choose between porn, with its virtual one hand sex, and you.
Izzy Posted May 1, 2004 Posted May 1, 2004 Originally posted by befuddled11 Dump him and begin a search for a man out there who doesn't watch porn. Be sure to pack a lunch though, and some extra clothes because your search could take a very long time. So you think all men watch porn?
Kat Posted May 2, 2004 Posted May 2, 2004 My partner was a bachelor living by himself when I met him and he had a hard drive full of porn and 10+ boxes of old FHM and such. Now three years later he doesn't have any porn on his hard drive (other than the odd 'fwd' email) and he no longer buys the mags. Some men grow out of it, some men see having a woman as more important than having a fantasy, some men would rather the fantasy, and some men can have the women and the fantasy as their woman doesn't mind. Note, for him to know you have a problem with it, you have to tell him. You have to express your concerns and feelings with him. But note, don't go in guns a blazing attacking and calling it trash. Say your side of the story and tell him how it makes you feel and then ask him how it makes him feel and why he does it and try and civily talk about it Good luck, it is such a make or break issue
capitald Posted May 2, 2004 Posted May 2, 2004 Kat, all I have to say is that is wonderfully refreshing advice. It is the tactic of a particular type of women to go in guns blazing at whatever does not please them, lets just say I won't use the word out of politeness. There is always a mature way of dealing with things and a putdown oreinted way of doing things. If you want someone to start growing up, then what better way then to treat them like an adult.
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