Lrrrrman Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 I guess its easiest to start from the beginning, so here goes! I met a girl a couple weeks ago while out with friends. I was being my nice/friendly but not exactly flirty self while during a night of bowling. My buddies were giving me crap because I ended up cleaning up beer, putting away bowling balls and eventually holding the door for a group of a dozen or so people. This girl took notice and as her group was leaving and seemed to appreciate what so few people do . I didn't think to ask her number, I figured she was a little out of my league, but as we were leaving she made a B-Line straight for our car and asked if I wanted her number, which I took. Initially a couple girls in our group (that I had never previously met) showed themselves as the jealous wrecks they are and tried to start a fight with this new girl. We talked around it over the next couple days and eventually went out for the first time about a week later. It seemed to go well enough, we went out for burgers and talked for a couple hours with the occasional awkward pause as we groped for common subjects, but by no means was it a bad experience. To me it seemed like a second date was in the works. The next day I went on vacation. We texted back and forth a little over the week. I called when I got back with no answer. She ended up texting me about the missed call later that night (almost midnight) and we texted back and forth again over the next hour or so. Called the next day (yesterday), and so far no response. So here I sit, not sure what to do. If she didn't want to go any further, she could have just as easily ignored my first call, but she didn't. Now I'm not so sure what to do. I don't want to keep calling and come off as clingy, but I'd be really disappointed if I just dropped all together. To make matters a little more complicated, I start heading back to school (only about an hour and a half away, so by no means am I cutoff from home for months at a time) next weekend, so time is an issue. Any advice would appreciated!
CeeJ Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 Did you leave a message when you called? If so you definitely shouldn't initiate any more contact with her - let her get back to you. It also kind of sounds like she is only mildly interested and/or has other stuff going on, and she clearly prefers to text.
Author Lrrrrman Posted August 15, 2011 Author Posted August 15, 2011 I get the same feeling. What's weird is she initiated the first bit of contact, but now shes more distant but not completely avoidant, it feels almost like a game. I hope its some weird phone phobia or just shyness. I guess another text wouldn't hurt .
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