NicoleM Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 (edited) My friend has kinda been M.I.A. lately and I messaged her on Facebook saying hey haven't seen you in awhile what's up?? She goes my life has changed for the good just be patient and sit tight. Huh??? I haven't bothered messaging her back but it makes me wonder am I supposed to wait until she sorts out her life or walk away?All I asked her was haven't seen you in awhile love to get together soon and then she said what she said. It hurts because we have been friends since college and that message was so random and weird.I am not gay or anything like that.... I am just asking should I be her friend or just walk away for awhile because she isn't being very nice and is acting like a toxic friend rather than a friend like it's a chore hanging with me. That is my question. Edited August 15, 2011 by NicoleM
Sacrificial Posted August 17, 2011 Posted August 17, 2011 You could probably cut her off some slack? Try to think, and put yourself in her shoes. Maybe she's busy with something or having a phase in her life that requires some alone time? What you could do is to tell her, if she needs to talk about something that might bother her, you'll be there. That's what you could do if you want to keep this friendship going on. I'm not flaming I'm just merely suggesting she might want some alone time. (probably)? Just hang out with other friends for the moment, but don't 'walk away'/quit being friends.
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