mannpho Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 I have been in a relationship with a great gal very much in love with her. Back in April she said she wasn't sure where this relationship would go. I didn't question her on it fearing I would hear something bad. We went to London on vacation in June and it came up again, but she said she was in love me. Today after being in her apartment for the weekend it reared it's ugly head. I recently lost my job and have had a tough time with it. I stayed positive and not bring in all my insecurities to her, she too is going through a career change a money issues, she is ok since she saved money ans is financially OK. Here are some of her comments. We are hanging out too much on the weekends and could be distracting her from her career golas. You sleep too much and concerned if Im not aggressive enough. I come from a different background, country clubs, power people etc. We are different different different different different love you and not sure if we should break up. You are wonderful and caring and attentive to me...I love you Should I just walk away or as she said let's try for a few months. Im not breaking up with you. Just not sure if your the guy for me. Bear in mind we are both in out fifties Ive been married but my wife past away. Ny girlfriend never married but was in a long 9 year horrible and verbal abusive relationship with a power guy from wall street a real scum@###@g. I need some thoughts since I am beside myself. Thank you so much for reading this long post.
TheDovic Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 She's on the fence dude, but she's giving you clear signals she wants a man! It's always important to be nice to women but she (like most women) are attracted to MEN not wusses. Be a man, act like a man... this doesn't mean hitting or being abusive. Read John Alexander's "How to be an Alpha Male" it might save your relationship. PS, will you take a look at my post entitled "she stopped texting"
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