EDC Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 I'm having trouble thinking up ways to not make the transition awkward. Basically, one of my female friend agree to go on a date with me. Which is good for me because I hope that we can be more than just friends. We haven't agreed to the time and day of the date, but it won't be for a couple of weeks because she's currently on vacation. The last time I saw her I felt really awkward. That awkwardness to me, felt like the kind of awkwardness you would get if you get rejected from a friend. I"m not really sure why. I want to transition this relationship smoothly. So how can I let her know that I feel awkward about this , but is willing to work on it? And also, I fear that this awkwardness might make her lose interest, which is something I don't want! So, my questions are: Why do I feel awkward after asking her out even though she agreed? How can I transition our relationship smoothly so that that awkwardness fades? Can I assume that she's interested in me since she agreed to our date? I basically told her that I had feelings for her, but I couldn't tell her because I wasn't sure if they were actual feelings. But since now I"m sure, I wanted her to know. But she didn't say anything about her feelings of me, but she agreed to a date anyways. Please help, I've been in crappy relationships before and my previous girlfriends were not my friends before we dated. Thanks.
somedude81 Posted August 15, 2011 Posted August 15, 2011 So how can I let her know that I feel awkward about this Why should you? Just go on the date and have fun. You're one of the lucky few, don't shoot yourself in the foot.
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