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I recently hooked up with a guy I have liked for like 10 years. We are both conveniently single now. I just broke up with someone a few months ago and need a NSA guy to have fun with and he totally fits the bill. I do NOT want a relationship with this guy, just the physical fullfillment. My question is this, in the beginning he was texting me and asking me to hang out and come over..very direct. Now he is texting me "what are you doing" and when I respond i get no response. This has happened three times this week. Why text me, why ask what I am doing if you don't care or aren't going to want to see me? I don't get it at all. Any guesses?

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Who knows?

 

FWB situations can be great, but I think to do well with them, you have to be in your zen zone -- appreciate what you have with him in the moment, but don't get hung up in these kinds of details.

 

Enjoy it, have fun with it, but don't let it make you worry or wonder too much.

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I am fine if he doesn't text at all. But I just don't understand the "what are you doing" texts and then when I respond I get nothing. It's very perplexing and kinda of immature.

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Honey, who knows? Maybe he's a stoner and forgets? haha It could be anything. If it bothers you, I'd just ignore it.

 

What are you really concerned about here? That's he not being as direct? If you want it, I say just ask him.

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