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Soon I will be relocating with my company about 1000 miles away from my current location. It is a year contract, then I get to decide if I want to stay or move back to my current location.

 

Anyway, the other day I signed into one of my old dating profiles and got im-ed by this guy. It was really random but we ended up talking and have been talking non-stop for a couple days now and plan to meet soon. However I do move in about a months time.

 

I haven't told him - since this may just be pre-meeting butterflies.

 

Anyway should I tell him now, on the date or after?

 

I really don't to waste his time and tell him after. However I don't want to not go on the date and risk that chance by telling him now. And telling him during doesn't seem ideal.

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Before. I would want to know what the situation is before meeting because it'd help me decide whether I want to meet or not. At the very least, during. I actually can't believe you didn't tell him during your conversations already.

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Before. I would want to know what the situation is before meeting because it'd help me decide whether I want to meet or not. At the very least, during. I actually can't believe you didn't tell him during your conversations already.

Yeah, I do feel bad about not mentioning it. I am just worried this may not go anywhere like the rest of my relationships so why waste my time tellung him anyway? Ugh, it isn't going anywhere obviously, I am moving.

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