tikster Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 Wow, So I don't sleep well and I get alot of my inspiration and as many of you can say "cajones" early in the AM and I emailed the ex. Short hand version= I posted earlier about how I dated a guy from my work for about 2months when we decided to hold off on our rel because he was applying to a job in Hawaii. one month later her found out he was not moving and then the next month he is now in a relationship with another girl the we BOTH work with . I was and am still very hurt by all of this. I have deleted him from everything and even moved my work site so I don't have to see them which sucks because I loved the old site I was at Basically, my email said something like "I'm sorry about my last texts" (I was upset about finding out about his new rel)and that I was just upset about finding out 3rd party after I asked him to his face if he was ending things with me for another girl. I told him that I knew that he was talking to her for a while, but never said anything and I felt like he never gave "us" a chance to work as a couple, between the job move confusion and the new girl coming on scene and I was sorry that he felt that I was such a horrible person to him and hope he and his new girl make it for the long haul. I also let him know that I moved sites so if I do end up getting a shift at that hospital they work at, it's not on purpose and I'm trying to get away from seeing him so it doesn't seem like I'm crazy and trying to be around him. We aren't fb friends anymore, I deleted him. I don't even know why I feel so freaking hurt, but I do. What made her so much better than me? He never even met up with me after finding out that he was staying on the mainland to see if we could work out. He just jumped into flirting with some other girl on FB and then when she came along, he started "talking" to her. I feel like I had to process two breakups in one which is probably why I am still grieving. I still miss him. Our budding relationship was good. There wasn't anything wrong. I wish I could just stop caring, like he did
WindWhisperer Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 Rejection hurts. There is no other way around it. I'm sorry you have had to go through this. Its horrible but if that's the way it is then rather now than 6 years down the line? I had an ex who left me for a friend. We had been dating for 5 years. So you can imagine how much it hurt. Excrutiating pain. But with time I let them have each other. There is nothing you can do. Your best option is to stop all contact with him. Its difficult but you need to move on with your life.
Author tikster Posted August 14, 2011 Author Posted August 14, 2011 rejection definitely does hurt. I'm sorry about your BU, I too also had an ex who left me for my so-called good friend. He tried to get me back, but by then i was so insulted and hurt that he would do that. I guess maybe that's why I'm taking this so hard, this is maybe the 3rd time someone's left me for greener pastures I can't get a break
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