4 months since the break -up, I rejected reconciliaion And i have my pride back.

[ThatBwoii]

Basically, as you may have all read, she cheated on me and left me for another guy, i didnt months of pleading, begging, feeling like total crap, finally got used to being alone again and re-gained my life back, and im a currenly looking toward the future with alo off exitement, today we had a very long convesation on facebook and she completely broke down and started to name call, abusive language, the lot. after she had finished all that, she told me that she needed me and that hshe had made a mistake, i rejected her, blocked her and went to have a cup of tea, with a big smile on my face.

[WindWhisperer]

Nice! Well done!!! So happy for u! glad to see a happy ending here

[Chi townD]

Pretty empowering huh!

[NursingGirl]

Basically, as you may have all read, she cheated on me and left me for another guy, i didnt months of pleading, begging, feeling like total crap, finally got used to being alone again and re-gained my life back, and im a currenly looking toward the future with alo off exitement, today we had a very long convesation on facebook and she completely broke down and started to name call, abusive language, the lot. after she had finished all that, she told me that she needed me and that hshe had made a mistake, i rejected her, blocked her and went to have a cup of tea, with a big smile on my face.

 

 

 

You GO Bwoii!

[ConfusedT]

good to hear. i hope my pride comes back. she's busy hiding somewhere... =)

[Nohbody]

Pat on the back is in order!

[LovelyDaze]

They certainly do come back and come back strong, don't they?

 

 

My ex just recently divorced the girl he left me for! I couldn't believe it when he insisted on calling me to lavish me with all of the apologies in the world, how much he missed me, reminisced about us, and ultimately asked if we could go have dinner to "try again." Ha!

 

I was almost insulted that my ex felt that I was tapping my fingers just waiting on him to come back. I told him over the phone that though I wished him well, I didn't want him to call again. Man, that felt awesome! Karma really does work.

 

Hope you will keep moving on and proving that YOU are the one that got away. We all deserve someone to love and that will love us back with mutual respect, kindness, and happiness.

[Layzie89]

True testament to the 'honeymoon theory'. Great post man, congrats on your newfound strength. Wishing you the best brother, keep at it!!!

[ThatBwoii]

Some people say that he strength dosent comeback, and that things wont get better, but they will always get better! i feel like i did before i met her and i love it.

[69ways]

cooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooool

[Bito]

I look forward to the day I can stand in your shoes my friend!

[katie.x]

Basically, as you may have all read, she cheated on me and left me for another guy, i didnt months of pleading, begging, feeling like total crap, finally got used to being alone again and re-gained my life back, and im a currenly looking toward the future with alo off exitement, today we had a very long convesation on facebook and she completely broke down and started to name call, abusive language, the lot. after she had finished all that, she told me that she needed me and that hshe had made a mistake, i rejected her, blocked her and went to have a cup of tea, with a big smile on my face.

 

Oh how I wish this day will come for me... Good on you. Now you can take the time to see whether she's serious and keeps trying to talk to you and whether you'd want to bother again based on her efforts and how much you care or don't.

[sleepykitten]

Great post/thread. Made my day!

[Dig0923]

Very nice read, glad you are well enough and could do that...

[ThatBwoii]

Oh how I wish this day will come for me... Good on you. Now you can take the time to see whether she's serious and keeps trying to talk to you and whether you'd want to bother again based on her efforts and how much you care or don't.

 

i would never go back, ive broken the circle and moved on, not too another person, but too myself. im a peace with being alone and i feel like i have all the time in the world, i dont have trouble sleeping at night, and i sure as hell would never even think about going back

[D-Lish]

It's so liberating to reject someone that did you wrong.

 

I dated a guy long distance and it just didn't work out because neither of us could give up our lives to pick up and move. He wanted me to move and I said I couldn't and we had a mutual break up. A month later he MSN'd me and we exchanged some small chit chat...Then he asked me:

 

"Are you dating anyone?"

me: "No, why?"

"I just met someone and we're really, really happy".

me: "Well I'm happy for you, why did you feel the need to tell me that?"

"You were the first person I wanted to tell because I wanted you to be happy for me"...

me: "okay, wishing you all the best, gotta go"...

 

WTF? That was so hurtful to hear. I suspect he'd had her lined up before we ended things.

 

Well, he married this girl, had a baby with her, sent me pics of his baby on his phone, busted out that I still meant so much to him from time to time. It was just weird.

 

They recently separated and guess what? He wanted to pick up where we left off. I told him no, but he was incredibly persistent. He actually flew out to where I live and told me where he was staying, his room #, that he was at a coffee shop- could I come meet him. I gave him nothing, not even a response and it felt great to cut him off.

 

It really is liberating to be in this sort of position.

[jerbear]

This sounds like something I'm going through. I got a phone call, email, and Facebook request last few weeks. Once it was after she broke up, called me up to have dinner (I paid and she wanted another dinner), I said no, she found another guy, had kids, divorced, and now sends me emails and Facebook requests wanting to go back to the old days.

 

I deleted her requests and emails. Kept the number as "do not answer"