will2006 Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 Me and my kids mom where together for 5 yrs and have 2 kids. I'm 23 and she'll be 22 (September. 1st). Through the 5 years it was a bumpy ride but a few minor breaks ( got back together 5 mins later) but other than that, it was the best thing ever in life. Then I got too comfortable in the relationship and didn't really spend as much time with her nor the family. And she wanted to go on break, I was scared and to desperate and needy and pushed her away. Now she's with her best friends kids dad, and everything is weird. She fell in love with him very quickly. But somewhere she has feelings for me still cause she asked for old pics of us 2 and family. But she swears up n down she moved on and in love with him that quick. I have a new girlfriend but I'm taking things slow. Will I ever have a chance back with my kids mom??? I really want her back but something telling me she's done with me and very happy with the new guy. They been together for 3 n half months so far. I just wish I can figure her out. I haven't wrote her any letters or nothing. She also got her number changed and I don't have it. She's calls me when she feel I should talk to the kids. She was dangerously in love with me and now she's gone and fee ll in love again. 2 weeks ago she told me them 2 fight alot and she's the main one starting them. And she told him that 5 yrs is better than their relationship a d she misses me and ect, yeah she told me all of thia. Now when she gets near him its an whole new person. So I confronted her to her new bf about the things she said to me, be didn't care he was being in denial. But that's red flags if your in a relationship with a female who just got out of 5 yrs with 2 kids. Every since I told him that, now my kids mom knows and now being. very hard and not talking to me all like that. Idk if she stilll has feelings or not, this female is a tough one. She refuse to see me in. person to tell me she's moved on. I still have allot of stuff at her house and I asked her nicely can she pack it up for me and ill come getit. She replies with a. That's alot of stuff when I get spare time, ill get it Any average female who moves on will not have their ex's stuff still at their house. Ex back coach? Really need help. I'm trying to save a family and 5 yrs of love. And tips and advice? Is it a move on or jts still workable? The Cleveland airshow is coming up labor day weekend and me and my kids mom went every year to this event cauae I'm a huge fan of aviation. So now me and her split up, I asked her did she wanna go a few weeks back, she said naw I'm ok. Now as of yesterday she said if I don't take the kids to the airshow, she's gonna take em. I said ashley you are not an airshow person. You went because of me. She said she wanna take the kids cause they like the airshow. ( my daughters aaliyah 3, and layla 1). Is she trying to use my kids to come to tbe Airshow or what cause since time is getting closer, she wanna go. Is she confused or what? I need help her coach. I trust you on this one. I love and miss her but I'm playing hard on her like I moved on and I do have a gf, been with her for a month. I would love to get my family back. Let me know if its a go or no go. Should I stay with the girl I'm with now, or still fight for my family. Just 4 days ago her dad took her grocery shopping and he said she wouldn't stop talking about me. Saying if I was there that she'll have to get this, that and she knows I love vanilla coke. And I told her I lift weights now and taking proteins and her dad said I got her attention from it. He said its a start for her to come back. I really want my family back. I miss her and my daughters. Any chances again guys?
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