k100danny Posted August 14, 2011 Posted August 14, 2011 Ive been in a relationship with my girfriend for 2 months and there was a few month build up to us getting together. everything started great no pressure or anything. i feel ive been a little needy. I dont need to see her all the time and i was happy at the pace we were travelling at. She is a very busy person and maybe i have put a bit of pressure on for us too see each other more and i now see that it isnt really that oomportant that we do. she says she wants it to be fun and exciting without a whole deal of pressure and wants it to be more casual (not in the sense that we arent exclusive) just in the sense of us enjoying the moment and letting it happen. can a relationship be slowed down or should i say is it possible for me to now relax and enjoy it without worrying i have ruined our relationship? I do worry maybe this might have put her off but she says that isnt the case but she would like us to sit back and enjoy it. I have been reassured that nothing has changed and she still feels the same but sometimes might have to change a plan or not be able to see me on one of our days, we usually get 2 nights together a week and she stays over at mine or i at hers. She works very hard and i totally understand this but she says she would love to see me more but obviously because of work ect its not possible at the moment.
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